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Erotic Massage with Cold Sore / Open Cut On Uncircumsized Penis
Hi there,
I have a 1cm open cut/cold sore and small minor tears on the upper foreskin of my penis, just where it pulls back. It was partially healed (although still stings when I go to the toilet), but small amounts of blood and fluid come out of it sometimes. It frequently tears, due to a tight foreskin that I have.
Anyhow, the question I have is that I recently had two massage experiences, whereby I had full intercourse (protected) and unprotected oral sex with the women. The massage was very full on, and she constantly rubbed her vaginal area around my penis (although no penetration). She had, however, pulled my foreskin back, so the juices did touch my sore sometimes. After sex, however, they both attempted to pull off my condom, but, as it stuck on the end, they grasped it, resulting in much of her vaginal secretions to touch my open cut/sore. She also rubbed a tissue which she had used to pull off the condom onto my sore, in an attempt to clean up. It stung quite a bit both times when the small amount of juices touched by open cut/sore.
Can I ask whether there is any risk of HIV from this?
Many thanks.
I have a 1cm open cut/cold sore and small minor tears on the upper foreskin of my penis, just where it pulls back. It was partially healed (although still stings when I go to the toilet), but small amounts of blood and fluid come out of it sometimes. It frequently tears, due to a tight foreskin that I have.
Anyhow, the question I have is that I recently had two massage experiences, whereby I had full intercourse (protected) and unprotected oral sex with the women. The massage was very full on, and she constantly rubbed her vaginal area around my penis (although no penetration). She had, however, pulled my foreskin back, so the juices did touch my sore sometimes. After sex, however, they both attempted to pull off my condom, but, as it stuck on the end, they grasped it, resulting in much of her vaginal secretions to touch my open cut/sore. She also rubbed a tissue which she had used to pull off the condom onto my sore, in an attempt to clean up. It stung quite a bit both times when the small amount of juices touched by open cut/sore.
Can I ask whether there is any risk of HIV from this?
Many thanks.
Thanks Teak,
That's cleared my mind completely. One thing though, and it's not a re-assurance question, but just out of curiosity, does it literally have to be unprotected penetrative sex for risk of HIV? It's just confusing how so much is made about fluid transmissions, leading to all this anxiety.
That's cleared my mind completely. One thing though, and it's not a re-assurance question, but just out of curiosity, does it literally have to be unprotected penetrative sex for risk of HIV? It's just confusing how so much is made about fluid transmissions, leading to all this anxiety.
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