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Worried I have hiv and gave it to my family.

I cheated on my wife and 6.5 weeks ago i recieved an unprotected ******** from a woman I am not sure her hiv status. My penis was sore from excessive masterbation the previous day with no lube, possibly torn skin? We also had protected vaginal sex.  

3 weeks later I had the following symptoms:
Fatigue
Oral thrush- still present at 7 weeks.
Dierrah
Loss of appetite
Lost 20lbs in 2-3 weeks time

I have had the following tests:
28 days HIV RNA that was negative through STDCHECK.COM. I went to a lab and they drew blood.
6 weeks- rapid HIV finger stick blood test. Alere Determine ag/ab 4th GEN. NEGATIVE.

I am so worried that I have contracted HIV from this exposure and have given it to my wife and also son. My wife has braces and could now have HIV and had a cut in her mouth and given it to our son.

I am constantly looking them over to see if there are signs of HIV.  I am so worried.  

Please help. Should I get retested and when?
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I received unprotected oral sex
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No risk with unprotected oral
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Thanks for the reply. I am very worried.  
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Hoping one of the doctors will chime in please
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3191940 tn?1447268717
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No doctors here, but no one will tell you anything different.  No one has ever contracted HIV from receiving oral sex, and you will not be the first.

HIV is passed from having unprotected, penetrative anal or vaginal sex.  Unless you are an IV drug user, you cannot possibly have any other risk.
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Thank you
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I hate that the doctors no longer monitor the forum. Any idea what happened?
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MedHelp decided not to continue the doctor forums.

Regardless, all of us who are volunteers adhere to the same identical information that was provided by the experts in all of these cases and therefore it's no different than if they answered you themselves. If you don't believe the answers you've received then you can search the expert forum where your same questions were answered many times with the same answers that you have already been given.
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Our members have accurately told you that oral sex is not considered a risk for HIV.  We wish you the best and are closing this discussion.

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