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Fingering with Cut

Hi
Sorry for the english I am from Portugal but living in Africa now.
I've been reading this forum for a little while now: I have a doubt in my mind.
I fingered a confirmed hiv positive person (a friend) with no gloves and after that I found myself a cut in my finger.
Meanwhile she was giving me a hand job .
At the time of the fingering i didnt feel a sting or pain only afterwards.
Maybe because i was in the heat of the moment and your blood gets hot therefore u dont feel nothing. I am now with the WHAT IF on my mind.
WHAT IF i cut myself without noticing on her trousers or zipper????
WHAT IF I cut myself in something before inserting my finger where the sun dont shine???
WHAT IF....

Two weeks later after i ignored the cut as i read here no chance of infection trough these kind of route here on medhelp, a mistery ilness began.

1. STOMACH PAIN
2.NAUSEA
3.VOMITING
4.RASHES ON UPPER CHEST (where the hair follicle is) AND BOILS ON BOTH ARMS (symmetrical)
5.DRY MOUTH AND MOUTH ULCERS
6.INDIGESTION
7.MILD FEVER (37.3 c)
8.MUSCLE AND JOINT PAIN AND SCALP ITCHING
9.LACK OF APPETITE
10.MILD HEADACHES

I experienced these symptoms for more than 2 months I guess, not refrainig that i was during the time SUPER DUPPER ANXIOUS and couldn't sleep with worry.

Do these symptoms look like ARS to you?

Do I have to test???

I had unprotected sex with my wife and she has itchy rashes on forearms, thighs and hands.


Tell me please what U think about it....
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Sorry i didnt read your profile!!!
I just thought u were another person just  like me!!!
Thanks for the help then.
The work you do is priceless.

So Finger with cut inside a hiv positive person for 5 minutes - NO RISK?I didnt see any blood in my cut.
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Not new here. Haven't answered questions in a while as I have been in rural India performing HIV testing and giving care.

-JC-
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Sorry to ask but who are you Jean Claude???Do you have any background in HIV and AIDS?
U are relatively new to this forum...

I know that the experts are Teak and others.
Teak please answer...
Or Lizzie Lou, im desperate for help.
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Go get tested for your peace of mind, collect your inevitable NEGATIVE and please move on with your lfe.

"No one in the history of HIV acquired it trough fingering with a cut???
How can we be so sure about it??? "

We know because some of us have made a career of treating, researching, and tracking HIV infections. Some here even live with the disease daily, they are more informed  than most of us medical people here. They've made it their mission to inform accurately, so no one has to go through what they are. You won't be misinformed here.
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Hey Guys I didn't have the courage to go test. I am still afraid of bring infected trough mutual masturbation with a small cut in my hand.
I am now aware that most of my symptoms are much consistent with anxiety but sometimes my head starts with the WHAT IF?

No one in the history of HIV acquired it trough fingering with a cut???
How can we be so sure about it???

I am still a little bit scared and freaked about that cut that i found after fingering. It was really fresh guys...

Well if i test ill post the results

Hope i wont be the first case of fingering infection
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costa... if ur not gonna believe anything at least explain the parts of what don't u believe in..
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