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Fingering with finger wound

I fingered a CSW with a finger having 1day old wound/cut. about 8 to 10mm. ive been fingering her about 10 to 15mins or more until i cum when she is doing a handjob. expose to vaginal fluid. am i at risk?
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You don't need an HIV test. You had no risk. Air inactivates the virus and fingering does not transmit HIV. The only risks are having unprotected vaginal or anal sex or to share IV needles to inject drugs. Since you had no risk, to answer your question, NO, you do not need to test.  Take care.
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how about the lube she put on my finger coz she dont want me play with her clit only insert to the hole. can affect the risk?
That does not change the situation or my answer.  No risk.
You must be very anxious because you haven't understood any of the advice and keep asking questions that were answered by the advice. Since you didn't answer the QUESTION I will do it for you. No there wasn't a penis in my anus and my penis wasn't in her anus or vagina and there was no shared hollow needle injecting me so I had zero risk and should move on from thinking that this encounter could infect me.  
last to help me move on, have you known anyone that have the same situation i have or worst like the wound is on the tip and just recent only that really didnt get infected given that the vaginal fluid is positive to HIV.
thank you this is my last.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (vagina, fluids, body, hands etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are only 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure, and the csw who doesn't want hiv knew that she was safe - which makes you safe too.
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so i dont need to take HIV test for this matter?
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im still worried. i read on google about open wound expose to body fluid that infected by the virus.
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It's not surprising that you are worried after Googling for Death,  because you can read all manner of fake infections there.  Seek therapy because at this point your hiv fixation is a bit of a mental health illness and no one here can help you through that.
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last to help me move on, have you known anyone that have the same situation i have or worst like the wound is on the tip and just recent only that really didnt get infected given that the vaginal fluid is positive to HIV.
thank you this is my last.
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It is time for you to read the advice and move on, instead of ignoring everything and asking never ending irrelevant questions.

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