The only way, as our members are telling you, to have a conclusive answer about your own HIV status is to take your own test. There is really nothing to add to that. We wish you the best and are closing this thread.
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Are you trying to get out of paying for your own test? If you've been married for a long time, and your long term sex partner as in your wife tests negative for HIV, you could then assume you will too but isn't it better to just go ahead and take your own test? You don't have HIV based on her result but why not just go take a test?