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Please help me!

I went a message place last night and the lady performed BJ on me with condom. We did not have sex just touched and played with toy because I was drunk. She wanked for me until *** at last. Are those actions risky? Is oral sex risk for HIV to transmit? Do I need to do a test? If i do, when shall I go? Thanks!
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170597 tn?1204052755
Protected oral is not a risk. Receiving oral sex is virtually zero risk, however giving oral sex might be a risk. I might be wrong, but that's what I read on this forum. But in your situation, you are fine, no risk.
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What about wanking and touching? We played with each other.
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Naseeb is right. You were "ultra smart" as going "well protected" for a blow job, an activity, not a risk at all for receivers, even if done unprotected.
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Both of touched her vaginal and then touched my penis. Can HIV virus transmit in this way?
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No risk is just that, no risk.
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If I want to do a test to put my mind at ease. when shall I do it?
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When ever you want.
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I mean the how long "window period" is.
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You're haven't been listening. You didn't have a risk. No risk, no "window period." Take the test if you must, at any time.
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277836 tn?1359666174
move on
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I had sore throat just two weeks afer exposure. Just sore throat, coughing and abit tired, no fever nothing else. Is that ARS? I am worried about it.
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What part of "No Risk" is it that you don't understand?
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BJ unprotected also hav very very low risk for trasmission...Giving oral sex might be risky if u hav cuts in finger or fresh wounds and if there is direct contact of your blood and her body fluids...
In your case as long as u dont hav such bleeding cuts ur "ultra safe"  Dont worried...
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you mean it is unrelated?
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Receiving a bj is not a risk of contracting HIV.
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Do you mean it is unrelated?
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277836 tn?1359666174
no its not unrelated it just means it such a low risk that it dosent even happen
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It is getting worse. I am having cold now. What shall I do? worried!!!
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I am worried because it happened just about two weeks after that. I had cold about one month ago and why got it again?
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Is that ARS?
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Sounds likes a plain and simple cold. People here will tell you and I read it my self on the net and the CDC web site that there had never been a documented case of HIV transmission from recieving oral sex. Ask yourself this how longs has HIV been going on? how many people recieve oral sex every single day around the world? How many people test for HIV from recieving oral sex- A whole lot of people test and come out fine. Anxiety and stress will drive you insane playin the what "IF" game, we all play it thinking we got HIV but just caught a bad case of: guilt, shame. Relax.
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I just concern that she touched her vaginal and then wanked for me. It may be the way to transmit.  
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