You've had negative tests that should confirm that neither you nor your partner have HIV. Remember that HIV is a fragile virus and difficult to actually get. You can always speak to your doctor for confirmation of this information. We are going to close this discussion and wish you and your partner the best.
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No doctors with knowledge of HIV would tell you to test at 6 months because they will know that is severely outdated information. Furthermore, no one with knowledge of HIV would ever recommend a PCR RNA test because it is NOT used for diagnosing HIV. That test is meant for people who already tested positive to monitor their viral load. If you want to get a conclusive accurate result, take the correct HIV test at the correct time, which is the Ag/Ab combo test at 28 days post exposure, and collect your negative results.
Quit messing around with these tests that are incorrect and clearly not giving you an accurate result, because they are not designed for that purpose anyway. If you want an accurate result then take the right test, obviously.
The Elisa was conclusive after 28 days so both can't have HIV. It was a waste of time repeating the test or doing the RNA. The science is 40 years old and very proven, so no detail that you add will make either of you at risk for HIV.
RNA gives false positives and is not recommended, so nothing else to say since Elisa was negative.