The specific ways people get HIV has been explained to you and it has been accurately stated that you can not get HIV from fingering, regardless of the circumstances. We are now closing this discussion.
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Does my heimoroids increase the risk if fingered ?
Hi thanks for the reply and apologies for repost. This would be my last reply / query
Assuming he did put his finger inside me does that qualify as penetrative anal ?
I have mild heimoroids but have never bled. Am i at risk in case he put his finger and he had some sore or cuts that i didnt notice ?
Does my heimoroids increase the risk
Please do answer and i wont have any further auestions
Thank you for the quick response. Appreciate it. Just curious about my first question - is it possible he fingered me and i didnt feel it ? Sorry if the question seems dumb as i never experienced fingering , handjob or blowjob
You had no HIV risk and it doesn't matter if he was positive so a test would be a waste of time. You have been worrying for nothing and he wouldn't finger you anyway.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead. If she was positive then you kissed dead virus, and dead is final as you know.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV. No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.