2 times unprotected insertive oral fellatio

[melikabazargan]

Dear expert

last week ,My partner of unknown hiv status ,performed 2 times oral sex on my penis without condom (I ejacuated in her mouth) plus open mouth kissing.After  I realised there is specific risk for Hiv to be transfered from her mouth to my penis during oral .

Later I was worried ,have checked internet and realised that my testing before  window period passed is useless.then I convinced her to be tested and she was Negative with DOU test CMIA .But its possible for her to be in window period as well and test will not pick it up and more infectious.
I would like to know my definitive status as soon as possible with the most reliable tests.
when should I test for conclusive and definitive test?45 days or 90 days?DOU test? 4th generation?antibody test? or pcr test?and there is different pcr tests abailable in clinics.please tell me the details.

please give me updated guidlines. thanks

[Sara_MHModerator]

Hello, as our member states, you did not have a risk from what you describe and there is nothing to add to that.  He also gave you accurate information on the 28 day period to take a Duo test.  We wish you the best and are closing this discussion.

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[AnxiousNoMore]

You had no risk of HIV because you can't get HIV from oral sex or from kissing. You are so safe that you don't even need to test. So for oral, there is no window period or guidelines due to the fact that you had no risk.
This is incorrect - "I realised there is specific risk for Hiv to be transferred from her mouth."

HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also instantly in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from oral sex. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with but you didn't do that so you had no risk. This sentence is all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV.
Even with blood, lactation cuts, rashes, burns etc air and saliva do not allow inactivated virus to infect from oral sex. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make your situation a risk.

[melikabazargan]

Thanks for your reply....as you can see in reliable sites like CDC ,they have mentioned its risky and in other sites low risk.I’m totaly confused and nervouse .I want to put this behind and ease my mind.

[AnxiousNoMore]

We are not affiliated with other sites because some use theoretical risks that haven't happened in 40 years of HIV history. You can find anything on the internet unfortunately, so the more you search the more anxious you will become after reading some of the unrealistic claims some sites make.

We rely on the advice of expert doctors who say there is no risk.

[melikabazargan]

thanks for your reply.
I would like to know what and when is conclusive test your expert doctors suggest to worried people?which test and when? for early detection and also conclusive final?

[AnxiousNoMore]

Duo is 4th gen and can be done after 2 days.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Sorry, 28 days. I didn't hit the 8 hard enough last time.

[melikabazargan]

after 28 days is conclusive dou test?what about pcr?

[AnxiousNoMore]

It isn't used for diagnosis. Since you had no risk, I have finished with this thread.