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Mutual Masturbation Situation

I am a guy and recently hooked up with a girl that whose status I do not know.

We kissed and I fingered her (rubbed her clit and inserted my fingers). She also played with herself and gave me a handjob, using spit as lubrication.

when I was fingering her I did use spit as a lubricant. When I spit on my fingers (same hand i used to finger her) my fingers touched my lips slightly.

This information is probably irrelevant but I do know that she has been active sexually and has been with bisexual men.

Was there any risk for HIV?
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The only way to contract HIV sexually is by having unprotected penetrative anal or vaginal sex with your PENIS.
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Thanks guys!  You're awesome.
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You never had a risk and neither did you googlenut.You should both move on.
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Yeah dude, you answered my question and here you are asking the same thing, lol.  At least you didn't get soar throat and headaches after, I'm dealing with that now and it's scaring the crap out of me.
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yeah, it's something of an issue lol
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How is it that you can answer other people's questions but you can't answer your own?
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No, it's not a risk.
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Thanks for this information, Teak.

Here's my absolute final comment. Duration of the fingering doesn't matter, right? 3 minutes or 1 hour.. it's all the same? In my encounter I was probably playing with her for a good 30-40 minutes.
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Wouldn't matter if she was positive or not. No risk.
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ZERO. NO RISK.
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Thanks, so just to be 100% clear, if she was hypothetically hiv positive this, mutual masturbation, is still zero risk?

Thanks and you guys do an AMAZING job!
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oh yeah, THAT thing lol
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just to clarify, when someone says that they're fingering a woman (in the context of std and hiv risk), it makes no difference if it's only clitoral stimulation vs inserting fingers into her vagina?

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i figured as much. i just became nervous after she began regaling me with tales about the threesomes and the sex she's been having. i know she's currently pretty promiscuous since she became single.
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Mutual masturbation is never a risk for HIV infection.
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(i asked this in the std forum and vance said it was not a std risk, but i also wanted to ask in the hiv forum in terms of hiv risk)
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