exposure/ no ?

[StressNNN]

Good doctor please let me know do I expose myself to hiv / no .

on 19 october 2015 I have oral sex and vaginal intercourse with an escort, since I don't know her status lets assume that her viral load is sky high and she is on her menstruation. I did fingering her with my middle finger (my finger didn't bleeding but might have small cut) and then I let her give oral sex with condom until my penis erect , and then I try to put it to her vagina with the same condom , but since I cannot keep my erection, after few minutes trying (I only able to get the head of the penis inside her) , I remove the condom and I decide to let her do hand job to me and after I get erection again I put on new condom and then do the intercourse . I only able to do intercourse for less than 5 minutes and then I ejaculate and withdraw from her. Then I go to the bathroom and check the second condom by filling it with water and did not see any water came out of the second one. I only check the first condom by blowing it with air and I don't see any burst. so if the first condom got leak / small holes do I get expose ? My way of using condom is putting it on my penis then unroll it (maybe not until the base) and pinch the top of the condom for semen . By those experience, do I expose my self / no ? thanks !

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, no you did not expose yourself to HIV.

[StressNNN]

are you sure ? No expose at all ? sorry to ask this but are you a medical student ? this isn't my first time and I'm worried since some web say that the more exposure you have , can make you more vulnerable , is that true ? does no one ever get infected by that kind of experience ?

[StressNNN]

what do you think of my experience ?

[paranoidstd]

You were wearing a condom all throughout no risk for anything! Zero risk for hiv! Life360 gave you accurate advice!

[StressNNN]

so what you saying is as long as you wear condom and it didn't break nor slip then you will be fine ?

[5598]

Is it safe to blow air into condom. Does it transmit hiv and vaginal fluids may still be present.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Micro tears are a myth so no purpose to doing a messy water balloon leak test. Any condom failure is a tear along the seam which becomes a wide very visible rip which you would have noticed.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air so method of putting it on is irrelevant. Only sex risks are unprotected anal or vaginal which you didn't have.
You had zero risk.

[5598]

But the condom touched my lips as I blew air into it after sex. Do u think there was fluids that went inside my mouth and cause hiv transmission??
Do u think I risk hiv??

[AnxiousNoMore]

No, HIV is inactivated in air. Also in saliva so double zero risk. Only sex risks are penetrating vaginal or anal when you didn't use a condom, so I am finished.