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HIV exposure...BDSM Question
Okay, I dont think I have anything to worry about but I still want to get maybe a few opinions, and have some questions answered which I have never heard answered..
An HIV positive friend of mine asked me one day to Whip him while I wore my camoflauge uniform. Donning leather gloves through the entire "procedure" I went about whipping him, and afterwards inserted a greased up sex toy into his rectal area. All of the "rectal fluids" and sweat stayed on the outer part of the leather gloves and nothing on my fingers.
I removed the gloves without touching any of the "stuff" and we then proceeded to his couch where we both mutually masturbated and I shot in his mouth (he was unable to reach orgasm). There was no penetration, and any risk, if at all, was ejaculating in his mouth, and potential leaking of anal fluids through the gloves to my fingers.
Now, I want to know what risks, if any are there from:
1. fluids, if at all, on fingers; I pick my fingers, and while there were no open wounds and while I did wash my hands when I was done with the leather gloves, my mind started to wander and I want to know what risks there are...like I have some red areas on my fingers, scabbed areas, pulled skin areas, but no blood...risks?
2. If I, an HIV Negative Gay Male, ejaculate into an HIV positive males mouth, what are the risks?
My friend has an "un-detectable" load of HIV right now...what does that mean?
I know some of you are thinking "this guys an idiot," but seriously I have never had those questions answered, and further, admittedly I do have Gen. Anxiety Disorder and OCD Personality Disorder.
Help if you can-my friend, an AIDS counselor, said my risk for infection was like 1 in 500,000...What do you think?
An HIV positive friend of mine asked me one day to Whip him while I wore my camoflauge uniform. Donning leather gloves through the entire "procedure" I went about whipping him, and afterwards inserted a greased up sex toy into his rectal area. All of the "rectal fluids" and sweat stayed on the outer part of the leather gloves and nothing on my fingers.
I removed the gloves without touching any of the "stuff" and we then proceeded to his couch where we both mutually masturbated and I shot in his mouth (he was unable to reach orgasm). There was no penetration, and any risk, if at all, was ejaculating in his mouth, and potential leaking of anal fluids through the gloves to my fingers.
Now, I want to know what risks, if any are there from:
1. fluids, if at all, on fingers; I pick my fingers, and while there were no open wounds and while I did wash my hands when I was done with the leather gloves, my mind started to wander and I want to know what risks there are...like I have some red areas on my fingers, scabbed areas, pulled skin areas, but no blood...risks?
2. If I, an HIV Negative Gay Male, ejaculate into an HIV positive males mouth, what are the risks?
My friend has an "un-detectable" load of HIV right now...what does that mean?
I know some of you are thinking "this guys an idiot," but seriously I have never had those questions answered, and further, admittedly I do have Gen. Anxiety Disorder and OCD Personality Disorder.
Help if you can-my friend, an AIDS counselor, said my risk for infection was like 1 in 500,000...What do you think?
You are not an idiot, just make sure to educate yourself on the ways HIV is transmitted and be safe.
Thanks--Im really not an idiot, seriously....just never heard those kinds of things answered.
Risk is absolutely zero. You cannot get HIV from touching infected fluids or mutual masturbation.
1) Zero
2) Zero
He still has HIV, but the count is so low in his blood that it's undetectable by tests.
The AIDS counselor sounds about right. if it's exactly as you describe, probably less chance than that.
2) Zero
He still has HIV, but the count is so low in his blood that it's undetectable by tests.
The AIDS counselor sounds about right. if it's exactly as you describe, probably less chance than that.
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