Aa
HIV risk help please worried
Hi I’m a 26 year old bi guy from uk, I met a male yesterday of a sex site (stupid I know), who I believe participates in a lot of causal sex with multiple partners (males / females) without condoms.
This guy penetrated me when he was pentrating me his penis was soft at first but a condom was used eventually it was at full length. I was holding the condom from the end of his penis so I know it was on then.
When he came he came inside the condom I believe as when he pulled it out I heard the noise of it being pulled off (never seen it). When he pulled it off some cum came out aswell could this cumleaked out the bottom of the condom and into me when he was pulling out I don’t know me, if not we’re did this cum come from as their was still cum in the bottom of the condom. I checked the condom after he left and put water in it can’t see any leakes.
Can I catch hiv from this please please please help.
Thank you
This guy penetrated me when he was pentrating me his penis was soft at first but a condom was used eventually it was at full length. I was holding the condom from the end of his penis so I know it was on then.
When he came he came inside the condom I believe as when he pulled it out I heard the noise of it being pulled off (never seen it). When he pulled it off some cum came out aswell could this cumleaked out the bottom of the condom and into me when he was pulling out I don’t know me, if not we’re did this cum come from as their was still cum in the bottom of the condom. I checked the condom after he left and put water in it can’t see any leakes.
Can I catch hiv from this please please please help.
Thank you
If a condom fails, it is a large rip down the seam and it hangs in tatters, so no need for messy visual or water tests in future. You had no risk and a test would be a waste of time. It seems the only time he was penetrating he had the condom on.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing, semen dripping or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing, semen dripping or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing, semen dripping or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing, semen dripping or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV.
2 Comments
So even if he sleeps about and is positive their is no risk, sorry to bother you.
Also can cum not Leak out the condom from the top I’m not saying it was ripped was saying if that was possible
Also can cum not Leak out the condom from the top I’m not saying it was ripped was saying if that was possible
Reread the advice for the answer to the first question.
Only the head needs protection, and there has to be penetration for risk, so no penetration after cum.
Only the head needs protection, and there has to be penetration for risk, so no penetration after cum.
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the HIV Prevention Community
Condoms are the most effective way to prevent HIV and STDs.
PrEP is used by people with high risk to prevent HIV infection.
Can I get HIV from surfaces, like toilet seats?
Can you get HIV from casual contact, like hugging?
Frequency of HIV testing depends on your risk.
Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) may help prevent HIV infection.
