Welcome to the forum.
As to definition of the HIV seroconversion interval ("window period"), your doctor is exactly right. I couldn't have said it better myself. Please note that this is the window period for antibody only. Other HIV tests, those that detect the virus itself and not antibody, including DNA tests and p24 antigen, have shorter window periods.
Although there is debate about the window period, your doctor seems to be somewhat behind the times. With the modern HIV antibody tests, the real window period is 6-8 weeks (and actually, over 90% of newly infected persons have positive results at 4 weeks), and it never takes 6 months. Some experts continue to say 3 months, but even this is unnecessarily conservative. Here is a thread that explains why 3 month advice remains common despite evidence in favor of 6-8 weeks:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/-A-Question-on-Testing/show/1347755
Even with the most conservative window period definitions, your testing has been excessive. Your negative result at 7 weeks pretty much proved it, and the later tests confirm with 100% certainty that you didn't catch HIV during the exposure you are concerned about. You say nothing about the exposure event, so I cannot judge how high the risk was. But it wouldn't matter if you had mainlined HIV-infected blood: your test results prove unequivocally that you were not infected.
I hope this helps resolve your confusion. There is absolutely no basis for you to still be worried. Best wishes-- HHH, MD