HIV - worried about events with vaginal secretions

[AliQ1979]

Dear friends. I am having concerns mainly regarding 2 events. Subsequent symptoms have heightened my worries. Answers on other websites haven't fully allayed my fears and of course there is contradictory advice on the internet.

The events:
1 - condom possibly slipped off after ejaculation when pulling out. Semen appears to have been caught in the condom.
2 - struggled to maintain erection during condom protected vaginal sex. Pulled out. Women in brothel jerked me immediately for a few seconds, then took the condom off and jerked me with the same hand for a few seconds, then put on a new condom and vaginal sex commences for 5 minutes.

I was worried about vaginal secretions that within seconds went from the vagina, onto condom, onto penis head, under the condom and then in the urethra whilst back in the vagina.

My worries are heightened because 1 week later I have muscle pains, intermittent nausea and tiredness, a painful LN under my jaw, and nasal congestion. I have had the symptoms for 7-10 days now.

Respiratory tests for viruses like flu and COVID etc were negative.

I'm really worried about HIV.

[AliQ1979]

Vaginal secretions - many reputable websites state HIV can survive for hours in outside environment. If put on penis and covered with a condom and reinserted Inside vagina, theoretical risk.

[GuitarRox]

If you can't understand what those sites are saying, you shouldn't be reading them. This is a moderated group that follows information from experts in the field of HIV. You will not get hiv from what you describe.  If you want to visit other sites to feed your anxiety, feel free. But you were answered here accurately. No risk

[AliQ1979]

Sorry. I'm not trying to second guess you. Just unclear if your team fully understood my specific concern. I know transferring vaginal secretions to penis is no risk. But transferring them immediately to top of penis a d covering with a condom then having sex. Won't they get in. Please don't ban me like others. I'm genuinely asking.

[CurfewX]

The answer WILL NOT change.

Unless you insert your unprotected penis into a vagina or anus without protection, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV from sexual activity. No one has ever contracted HIV from the activity you mentioned.

[GuitarRox]

Lot of anxiety in your post. Get help with that.

Here are the risks for transmission of hiv. To have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV needles to inject drugs. Air inactivates the virus and only the head of the penis needs to be covered. Condoms rolling up some or slipping up are NOT involved in hiv transmission. Your symptoms are  meaningless. HIV is not diagnosed by simple symptoms. Only risk analysis and testing. You had no risk and don't need to test.