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Worried sick- should i go in for rna testing on a ROCHOR amplicor
Dear Doctor Bob
Please answer my question. this is the fifth time i am writing and i have already sent in a donation. I cant rest in peace till i get some sort of answer from you.... I went to bangkok and like an idiot i got an oil massage done....she rubbed oil on herself and then rubbed oil on me. il cut to the important part...she oiled my penis and put on a condom and gave me a ******* after which i think she put lube or oil on her vagina and got on top of me. i ended up penetrating her for about 30 seconds.i ejaculated within 15 seconds and by the 30th second i was out ofher. after which i removed the condom and washed my penis. the condom seemed to be intact. i did not know that oil damages condoms.....i had a glance at the condom and it did not seem damaged..but i cant be sure... after this incident i have not been able to lead a normal life. infact i cant eat or sleep.im in tears as to how i could do such a stupid thing......please tell me my risk level....what is the chance that i will get hiv assuming that the girl is hiv...16 days after this i got an hiv antibody 1 and 2 test done, hepatitis b test and a vdrl test done...all came negative.i had to this because my gf got vaginal warts (which started about 1 month before my exposure) but had increased and the doctor asked her to get me tested as well. its been about 18 days now since i got the massage and i have no hiv symptoms until now when i can feel a small swelling behind my ear. its connected to the bone right behind the right ear and only on the right ear.
There is an organisation in singapore -www.hiv.sg which carries out rna hiv tests? should i go in for this ? its by a roche amplicor machine
is there a chance that i may be safe?
thank you
Please answer my question. this is the fifth time i am writing and i have already sent in a donation. I cant rest in peace till i get some sort of answer from you.... I went to bangkok and like an idiot i got an oil massage done....she rubbed oil on herself and then rubbed oil on me. il cut to the important part...she oiled my penis and put on a condom and gave me a ******* after which i think she put lube or oil on her vagina and got on top of me. i ended up penetrating her for about 30 seconds.i ejaculated within 15 seconds and by the 30th second i was out ofher. after which i removed the condom and washed my penis. the condom seemed to be intact. i did not know that oil damages condoms.....i had a glance at the condom and it did not seem damaged..but i cant be sure... after this incident i have not been able to lead a normal life. infact i cant eat or sleep.im in tears as to how i could do such a stupid thing......please tell me my risk level....what is the chance that i will get hiv assuming that the girl is hiv...16 days after this i got an hiv antibody 1 and 2 test done, hepatitis b test and a vdrl test done...all came negative.i had to this because my gf got vaginal warts (which started about 1 month before my exposure) but had increased and the doctor asked her to get me tested as well. its been about 18 days now since i got the massage and i have no hiv symptoms until now when i can feel a small swelling behind my ear. its connected to the bone right behind the right ear and only on the right ear.
There is an organisation in singapore -www.hiv.sg which carries out rna hiv tests? should i go in for this ? its by a roche amplicor machine
is there a chance that i may be safe?
thank you
HI teak
But oil weakens condoms and even though i was in her for only about 30 seconds isnt that enough for me to get the hiv??
i only had a glance at the rubber- i didnt check it . it seemed to be intact.
But oil weakens condoms and even though i was in her for only about 30 seconds isnt that enough for me to get the hiv??
i only had a glance at the rubber- i didnt check it . it seemed to be intact.
At no time were you ever at risk and you don't need testing. This isn't the Body website either.
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