Hello Doctors:
In Nov, I started dating my bf, we both got tested and STD panel came out Negative. We had performed foreplay during the time we were dating. We ended our relationship and during that time I went on a date with a long time friend. Jan. 1 we deep kissed and I tasted a little bit of blood, I had no contact with his penis(he was fully clothed), he fingered me and performed oral sex on me briefly as he fingered me. I don't know if he had any cuts. I kept asking him if he was tested recently and he said yes and that he was clean. (he tends to sleep around).
My bf and I ended up getting back together a week later. I'm worried because I haven't been feeling too great, three weeks ago I had a bad flu and strep throat with some white coating in the back of my tongue. We don't sleep around and haven't had an intercourse encounter with anyone since we were tested. 2 weeks ago we ended up making love with/without a condom (during my period).
I'm worried because I just recently got a cold sore (which I got in childhood), and my throat has been bothering me as well as feeling exhausted. Is there any chance of transmission of HIV or anything with my friend during Jan 1? I keep reading that there isn't but each story is unique so I wanted to make sure. Should I be paranoid about getting retested? I'm concerned because I would never want to hurt my bf in any way. Are my symptoms perhaps a re-occurance of strep or perhaps sinusitis (which i've had before)? Could it be stress related or the fact I had a heavy period? Is there a higher risk of any type of transmission while on your period? I'm so confused.
Also, my bf knows I've dealt with cold sores since I was a little girl, and a few days ago I never felt any tingling or saw anything coming and I gave him a blow job. I've read about shedding periods, the cold sore popped out on my lip 18hrs later. Is there a risk of him catching it on his penis? I'm very stressed out.
Thank you for your help!