Help - Scare of HIV is killing me

[Rhonda25276]

Hi - I m a healthy male - 30 yrs old. Recently, I made the biggest mistake of my life - I had my tooth extracted - my dentist put stiches after taking it out, and four days after that everything was ok and i went back to him and he said ur wound is covered and healed.  A week after that (week after extracting my tooth) i met one of my online friend and we had unprotected oral sex. I checked my gums before doing anything - by looking at them and spitting many time before getting into the act and there was NO bleeding. I was spitting out while licking and never gulped anything. I licked her clit only - never kissed or licked the vaginal part. She was laying on bed ( I assume her vaginal fluids flow downward direction). Now i m scared - if by any chance - if she is HIV positive and her vaginal fluids touched my gum (and if by chance the wound is open/ or ozzing ) - I may have trasmitted the disease. First week - I was scared very much - some shivers, unslept nights and little sweat on forehead (may be cause of tension). I went in for HIV test and it came out negative and i been asked to repeat after 6 weeks and 13 weeks.  I didn't notice much in first week but definately No fever, No nodes, No sweating of body, No rashes. 2nd week - I had sore throat for 1-2 days, become dry at night - possibly coz i was drinking beer in evening -  and it was itching and little paining / uneasy while gulping any fluid or saliva. 3rd week I develop - some pimples on my face two near nose on left side and one in left eyebrow (the one in eyebrow - was really bad - coz it never came out and my eye was swollen). - My friend told me pimples may be coz of not masturbating , which i was doing on regular basis and now being scared - i m not at the same pace as i used to do. Some itching - outside my neck (Probably i didn't shaved and my beard grew up) - Every day i check my whole body, never saw any rash, just some body marks, look for nodes - nothing - only feel muscle fat - as small tiny tots - nothing like nodes. But one thing is sure - what ever i read on line - i start thinking that i have those symptons - untill i shake my head and think - no i am ok. I asked my friend (one with whom i had this encounter ) and she told me she is clean - no disease - but now she is gone back home and I m not in touch with her.
I have two question -
1. Do i have HIV like symptoms - Am i infected
2. If you think - I m ok - how many cases / changes are there of getting infected in situation like me - unprotected oral sex.

[Rhonda25276]

No - That is the name of the girl - I had it with

[Jaguar83]

Is Rhonda a guys name now?

[Rhonda25276]

Hi Teak - Thanks for quick reply. This act was on sunday (Thrusday I went to see my dentist and he told me you look perfectly fine) and on Friday morning while brusing my teeth - there was some blood but nothing on Sat mrng and nothing on Sunday and sunday evening - I had this Unprotected encounter - she did on me to the last and i did on her to ***. Why i m so scared is coz of the bleeding which was there on friday mrng while brushing, and stories on net where about people getting HIV throu oral. Some one told me to go for Viral load test as it will give accuracy - what do u suggest ??? and the pimples - they are really scarry ???

[Teak]

1. No
2. Yes  Zero Your mouth was sutured and there was no open wound.