Help!!!!

Question

On a recent trip to Thailand, I ended up at a go-go bar (non nude) with some friends. I was drinking heavily earlier in the night. While I was there, I remember having a few more shots and then things got fuzzy. I remember certain events vividly but then felt there were gaps of memory when talking with people like how did I end up sitting at this table, etc talking with some stripper. My friends said i was pretty wild which was out of character but somehow i ended up alone seperated from my friends at the end of the night. I was only out for about 2-3 hours there. At 2:00AM I ended up getting pulled by a girl towards a hotel and I remember walking with her until I realized what was happening and got a taxi home. I am certain I went home alone but the bizarre thing was then next morning, my iPad wouldn't accept the password I always use which got me thinking maybe I was drugged and somehow someone ended up in my room trying to access my iPad to possibly transfer money etc. I never had an event where I had partial blackouts so I am worried that when I was out of it in the bar that something could have happened. I just feel i might have been drugged. I had no hangover in the morning and woke up at 8:00am feeling fine. I'm just worried maybe I was led off earlier and didn't remember it and did something that put me at risk for HIV or somehow someone followed me back to the hotel and I let them in etc which explains my iPad password not being accepted. Nothing was stolen which is a good sign but I am still so worried. Can I get your thoughts as I've never in my 37 years had a partial blackout moment. Obviously you weren't there so you and me cant completely explain what could have happened but if I remembered parts of the night could I have completely blacked out something that put me at risk.

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Thanks rereading my post it does seem bizarre scenerio.
I do have a hiv phobia and cant shake the thought if I was drugged maybe  would have been in a trance like state and put myself at risk and then snap out of it back at the bar and not realize what happened an hour before. Just an anxious person I guess.

joggen · Answer

Your only problem is paranoia. You do not have an HIV concern. This forum cannot help further.

chook110607 · Answer

If you think you were drugged why not go to the hospital and talk to a dr. he could order blood tests to see if you have drugs in your system, most date rape drugs like roofies are excreated from the body in 24 hours though. Sounds to me like you were really drunk. Period. Maybe ypu changed your own password while you were drunk? Thinking someone changed your own pw seems far fetched considering they would have to have answers to security questions and know yoyr log in user name. Sounds really unrealistic

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Why wont anyond respond. I just want some general advice here? Should I get tested. My post is 100% honest. Im justjust really worried.

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Can I get some advice on if I should get tested? Based on my scenario should I get tested?

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Any additional comments would be appreciated. Should I get tested?

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Well a few times, but obviously I wouldn't think I would cheat on my partner drunk. It's the not remembering which leads to the unknown. I told my girlfriend about the incident but worried and think I should maybe get a test. I just keep thinking if I did end up in a situation that put me at any risk that I would have a vague recollection of it...

Teak · Answer

How many time have you done something stupid from being drunk?

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Thank you Teak, I know is is outside of the forum but if I was drugged would I have known? Would i have felt it the next day? I am worried more for my girlfriend than myself. I just can't get it out of my mind that if I was drugged that I could have been in a zombie like state and did something out of character. Obviously a learning experience to limit my alcohol consumption. Being that I never had a blackout experience in my life I keep thinking what if this or that happened.

Teak · Answer

No it sounds like you were drunk. If you were that drunk you wouldn't have been able to get an erection.

Bradjohnson22 · Answer

Obviously my excessive drinking but me in a compromising situation in a foreign country but does that sound like I was drugged. Could I have put myself in a risk situation and not remembered it completely even though I vividly remember getting a taxi and walking back to my hotel etc. should I get tested? Please help.