I'm a married white male in my early thirties. In late October, I visited an adult video store after drinking a lot. A man (who told me later that he's there all the time) knocked on my booth to inform me the booth was broken (which it was). He told me to use a different booth and walked me to one that he "knew" worked. He then asked me if I was looking for head. Beyond all my comprehension, I said yes and it's been killing me ever sense. He aggresively gave me oral, licked my testicles and we kissed aggresively/ackwardly many times. In the process, I cut my lip (noticed the next day), didn't realize it and gave him oral for about 1 minute. He also rimmed me extensively before I wound up ejaculating in his mouth about 15 minutes from the beginning of this episode. As I left, he told me stop by soon to see him again. Ugh. He must be there all the time! This was my 1st gay experience. I'm now seeing a counselor to figure out why this ever even happened. He's had me wait 90 days before getting tested, which has driven me crazy. And then I found this website, which contradicts a lot of what he has told me.
He also had EVERYTHING pierced, for what that's worth.
1) What kind of risk did I expose myself to? He is clearly high-risk.
2) I had a flu shot 1 week after, would that interfere with getting significant flu symptoms?
3) What if he had performed this on others that evening? Could I have been infected by their DNA? I'm especially worried about the rimming and the cut on my lip.
4) Besides mental relief, should I be tested?