Risk assessment

[pat2204]

Hello,
on march 15th I had a massage session in which the black masseuse offered me a blow job. She put condom on my penis and gave me a blow job. I came in 5 min and she removed my penis out of her mouth and proceeded to remove the condom and dispose it off.

my question starts really after this.. She then went ahead and put another condom on my penis and started giving me blow job. my penis was not erect. after about 5-10 min i told her that's enough and removed my half erect penis(condom was on it) out of her mouth and removed the condom and cleaned the penis. Here are my questions
after about 2 weeks i had a bout of allergies (i think) runny  nose, chills for 10 days. I don't remember having fever or diarrhea. Last week i had pain in my back, back of the leg.
1) is there a possibility of getting hiv through this incidence. assuming she was positive.
2) does the 1/2 erect penis even with condom change the situation.
3) Do i need testing?
4) also I don't know if she had bleeding gums or not. did not notice the condom when she removed it.
5) are the symproms anything to be worried about?
i am really freaked out.  teak, kumar and lizzie already told me that I was at no point at risk but just wanted your opinion. Please help me.

Thanks
Pat2204

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Your answer will be brief as the questions you have asked is answered almost daily on this site and can be found using the search function or, for that matter, just reading the answers provided over any period of a few days.  

Your assumption that your partner had HIV is almost certainly wrong.  Few commercial sex workers have HIV unless they are IV drug users.   Furthermore, there is virtually no risk of getting HIV from receipt of oral sex and receipt of condom protected oral sex is no risk.  thus to provide answers to your specific questions:

1.  No, virtually no risk.
2.  No, partial erection does not change my assessment.
3.  No, you do not need testing for this exposure.
4.  Oral ulcers, gum diseases, etc would not change my assessment in any way.
5.  No, worrying about symptoms is a waste of time.

You have no reason for worry. Further, there is no risk for follow-up questions, particularly questions of the "But what if...." variety.  Try to stop worrying and move on.  EWH

[Edward W Hook, MD]

The result you have is conclusive for any exposure you may have had more than 8 weeks before testing.  

HIV is not transmitted by masturbation.  It has never been. Worrying about HIV transmission due to masturbation is a waste of time.  EWH

[pat2204]

Doctor,
Thanks for the answers.I will try not to waste time

[pat2204]

Doctor,
I took 8 week(may 14) HIV test and it came out negative.
also I have had 3-4 exposures of massages culminating with hand jobs before march.
I just have 2 follow up questions though...I would really appreciate your answer.

1) would that test detect any exposures I have had prior to march?
2) also can I assume the above result conclusive for this exposure(march 18 one)?

Thank you.

[pat2204]

Thank you doctor for the assessment.