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Hungarian lap dance
Sorry to have to go through the detail but I understand that you can answer easier if I give you as much info as possible. I recently got drunk at a mates stag night had a lap dance from a Hungarian sex worker - there was no penetration. She stripped me to my underpants and then performed a naked lap dance on me - rubbing her body over me and gyrating her crotch into my pants until I ejaculated. At that point I freaked and got the hell out of the place. There was definitely no direct contact between my penis and her vagina (only through my underpants) although I did kiss and suck her nipples.
Now I'm really scared that I might have contracted an STD or even worse HIV. It's really freaking me out. - I rang an AIDS helpline and they said 'no penetration - no risk' but I was still worried so I had a HIV DUO test at 30 days. That was negative but the doc said that I should go back at three months for a second test to be completely sure... I'm on day 71 now and counting. The doctor also advised me not to have sex with my wife until the second test has been done (she knows nothing of this episode). I'm so worried I've already lost a stone in weight (14lbs) and can't sleep at night. I think of this nightmare all of the time - last thing at night and it's there with me first thing in the morning.
- Am I at risk of HIV?
- What's the reliability of the DUO test at 30 days?
- Do I need to take a three month test to be sure? - Can I do it at 12 weeks or even now and be sure?
Please help me doc, I know I did a really stupid thing and it's eating me up. I've got a wife and small kids and am worried that I've brought a death sentance to my home.
Now I'm really scared that I might have contracted an STD or even worse HIV. It's really freaking me out. - I rang an AIDS helpline and they said 'no penetration - no risk' but I was still worried so I had a HIV DUO test at 30 days. That was negative but the doc said that I should go back at three months for a second test to be completely sure... I'm on day 71 now and counting. The doctor also advised me not to have sex with my wife until the second test has been done (she knows nothing of this episode). I'm so worried I've already lost a stone in weight (14lbs) and can't sleep at night. I think of this nightmare all of the time - last thing at night and it's there with me first thing in the morning.
- Am I at risk of HIV?
- What's the reliability of the DUO test at 30 days?
- Do I need to take a three month test to be sure? - Can I do it at 12 weeks or even now and be sure?
Please help me doc, I know I did a really stupid thing and it's eating me up. I've got a wife and small kids and am worried that I've brought a death sentance to my home.
That's crazy man...testing over a lap dance... no way you catch hiv like this 211, no way. I don't know how you managed to bust a nut like this either...but your in the clear man.
That's crazy man...testing over a lap dance... no way you catch hiv like this 211, no way. I don't know how you managed to bust a nut like this either...but your in the clear man.
You bet! £100 - Ok now I feel pretty cynical. So I guess the recommendation to go back at three months would be just another money generator?
Just to be clear - when I said pants I was referring to my underpants not trousers. I was only wearing underwear.
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