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Scared out my mind

I made a big mistake,i was very drunk and went to a rundown strip club and had brief intercourse with an african american female for about 30 seconds,she provided the condom which I did not inspect while my penis was very soft.she suddenly got up and said she will be back,never seen her again,i removed condom and left as well.I got an hiv dna test by pcr at 31 days along with full std panel,all came out negative,oral swab at 8 weeks and 10 week rapid hiv antibody all negative,can I continue sexual relations with my partner?
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186166 tn?1385259382
for someone who had a risk...YOU DIDNT...a test at 10 weeks is "near" conclusive, meaning it is an extremely good "indication" of one's status.  it must be followed up at 3 months

really????
you had no risk...WHY would you come back and ask if you can continue having sex?  
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Thank you Lizzie,how about my test,and do you recommend continuing my regular sexual realations?
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186166 tn?1385259382
if you looked down and saw your condom instead of your bare penis...you had no failure
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Thanks,but it was a blurry night maybe I missed some kind of failure
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186166 tn?1385259382
condom failure is catastrophic and nothing you have to second guess.  you stated that YOU removed the condom...you WOULD HAVE known if it failed.

no risk
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I just dont remember much about the condition of the condom start and finish,i do know it was used,how reliable are my test and should I continue sexual relations,i have also sufferd from weird symptoms
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You had 30 seconds of protected sex...you did not have a risk. Condoms work.
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