thank you all so much! you really helped me calm down, i was so afraid that one stupid decision was going to ruin my life. this whole experience has completely changed my outlook on life, i value all that i have and see the stupidity in arguments and anger and instead spend my time appreciating and loving everyone around me. i also now slightly understand the struggles of those with hiv or waiting to receive test results. i have decided that i am going to volunteer to help those in need of support and also contribute to organizations searching for a cure. i guess this bad experience has turned out to have a silver lining. once again thank you!
you did NOT have a risk..
unprotected oral sex with/without swallowing is not a risk for transmission
your health concerns is not due to hiv..
the alimentary tract has got many enzymes which will deactivate the virus if present..
so you dont need to worry and dont require a hiv test
Stay Calm, Do you know his status?,even theoretically he has it, the chances of you getting it is slim , 1 in 10,000 from studies. take an initial test at 6 weeks, and again at 3 months. Anxiety Sucks, I know. Just stay calm, keep yourself busy until then.