Is it possible to get infected with HIV in this case??

[sihamhobb]

Please I need urgent help as I'm over worried and can't think of anything else.
I kissed a girl who turned out to be sexually active. ( Don't ask me if i checked for mouth sores etc because it was not possible )
I fingered her ( i had no bleeding finger )
She inserted her finger into my anus
No oral and no penetration.
THis was it.
I later had not a full rash but slight reddening on my face and neck.... the pain is just like a mild sun burn...
I'm bursting of fear whether it is HIV.
I'm in my early twenties with a future ahead.
I don't want to die!!!! :S

[sihamhobb]

Thank u so much :))

[pmdmello]

In fact it is right on top of this page 14 Myths about HIV

[pmdmello]

Stop googleINGGG.... Saliva contains enzymes and proteins that inhibit HIV, so as such it is a deterrent rather than a medium of transmission, secondly when you type www.medhelp.org something flashes on the top of the page which says Myths about HIV and there it is clearly mentioned that fingering is not a HIV risk.

For HIV to transmit through kissing you need a actively bleeding wound and then some blood from a infected person to get in the wound, but common sense tells me that if anyone has a actively bleeding wound that person himself wont try and kiss anyone coz of the pain...

So stop surfing the net.

[sihamhobb]

I just need to clarify about contradictions that exist in the literature on google and other sites and what you are saying which is indeed based on literature and practice.
Googling HIV would definitely say that
1)kissing can transmit HIV if it's deep and there are cases who caught HIV from kissing
2) fingering is a risk. That's why you should use gloves.
3) The CDC asks to avoid kissing.
3) What is the coincidence of developing this source of slight allergy after 4-five days of the kissing time. Is it due to stress?
4)How come it turns out that kissing and fingering doesn't transmit the virus. What if during kissing a person a lip bite causes some blood into your mouth? Isn't it the same as tranfsusion?
I can't understand the difference in point of views. Thank You

[Teak]

Nothing more to explain. You never had an exposure if you are concerned about a rash you have see a dermatologist.

[sihamhobb]

1) but the fact that I'm having a mild rash on my shoulders and face that are abit annoying...

2) a feeling of starting to have fever.

They say kissing or being fingered might be a risk.
I can't focus on my studies.
Please explain to me more so I can be relieved.
Thank you alooooooooooooooooooooooot

[Teak]

You never had an exposure.