Welcome to the forum and thanks for your question. Your English is fine.
Based on your description, your partner is sexually very safe and very unlikely to have HIV. Even if you had not used a condom at all, I would say you should not worry and do not need to be tested for HIV. Probably she is telling the truth about her HIV tests; friends don't often lie about HIV status when asked directly. And it is statistically very unlikely she has been infected since her last test.
Having HSV-2 roughly doubles the risk of HIV, but first you have to be exposed. And the average risk of transmission from a single episode of unprotected vaginal sex, if the female is infected, averages 1 in 2,000. Double that is still only 1 in 1,000.
To your specific questions: 1) I recommend against any HIV testing at all. But if you feel aneed to be tested anyway, have either a single "combo" or "duo" test (for both HIV antibody and p24 antigen) at 4 weeks; or an antibody-only test after 6-8 weeks. (See
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1704700)
2) You should not be at all worried. The most important STD risk from this event was for your partner, i.e. your HSV-2. Since you consider her a friend, I'm sure you made sure she knows abut your herpes. If not, you need to tell her now.
I hope these comments have been helpful. Best wishes and stay safe-- HHH, MD