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Am I at risk? Massage parlor exposure....

Hello, I visited a massage parlor in Toronto Canada.  They had a Polish girl (not sure if it matters) giving me an erotic massage.  I am wondering if i have exposed myself to HIV with the following activities

1.  Fingering, it was pretty rough, after we are done, i notice that the fingers that i used to finger her has a bit of skin peeling form an eczyma.  On the same hand, another finger (never used to finger her), has cracked skin due to dryness

2.  Cunnilingus, it was very very brief, and it was only to the top part of her vagina, according to Wikipedia this is the Clitoral hood and Clitoral glans.  It was very very brief, 5 second at most, I did this twice (each time not exceeding 5 second) I had a few canker sore too, will this increase the risk?

3.  I used the same hand that fingered her to play with her breast, i later on kissked and licked the nipple of the same breast

4.  She kissed my penis breifly

5.  She masturbated me till i ejaculated

How risky did i put myself toward each of these activitiies?

Thanks
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Hi Vance

I am very sorry, but english was not my first language, its just that when i read it, I don't know if none of my activities were consider a risk/exposure, i felt that there could be uncertanties.

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READ WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD.
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Thanks, so this is the third week, that is why it concerns me.  The activities that I was engaged in, was it LOW risk or NO RISK?
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2 TO 4 WEEKS
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Vance - i don't know, tahts why i wonder if i was exosed, maybe i was and thats why the symptoms?   Usually how long will it take before symtoms of ARS show up?

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Your stress and anxiety is probably causing you to not feel well.Test for other std,s but not hiv.Stop worrying you never had a risk of hiv transmission.Take care.
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If you never had a risk how could symptoms show?
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How soon would ARS use to show up?  This is the 3rd week since my little episode, am i just sick of something else?  Such coincidence?
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1563685 tn?1310402354
As you've been advised you had no HIV risk, let alone have contracted HIV, so the diseases you're suffering now have nothing to do with HIV.
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Hi Teak and Diver

The exposure was back in march 25th, I started having some flu/cold like symptomns as of yesterday, can this be ARS???

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Reread the replies you just given.

None of your exposure you mentioned, puts you on a risk of HIV.

At no time did you have an exposure.
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I am still a bit scared, should i get tested?  The next 12 weeks will be hell for me.....
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Thank you!
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At no time did you have an exposure.
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Will that 2-3mm cut change anyone's assessment?  What about the cunnilingus with the canker sore?

Again, it was only performed on the Clitoral hood and Clitoral glans and it was brief.....

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It wasn't to a point where it need stitches.  the skin crack was only about 2-3 mm in length, i don't know if it was bleeding at the time, i don't think so....
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No, until and unless your fingers are profusely bleeding and the wound needs immediate stitching. In that case, you would have been sitting in an emergency room of a hospital instead of having fun with a girl. :-)
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Thanks, even with the cracked cut skin and the peeling what about the cunnilingus with the canker sore??
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366749 tn?1544695265
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None of your exposure you mentioned, puts you on a risk of HIV. Unprotected anal or vaginal sex is the only way to contract HIV from sexual routes. You are fine and do not need any testing.
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