I'll try and make this short, anxiety is killing me.
One time exposure about 3 months ago with girl I've known for many years. Started with condom but had unprotected vaginal for a period of time at the end, with (at least to my knowledge, non-drug using, caucasian female, in city in British Columbia Canada). Day after, had a swollen groin node (has remained for 3 months, not painful, not moveable, has been confirmed by doc, but doctor said it did not seem inflamed and was not worried). Week after, sore throat, mild fever for about 3 days, sore throat went away after 7 days or so. Did not feel all that well for following couple of weeks, but no fever or sore throat, just headache, occasional sore neck, I suspect that may have been due to stress however.
Tested negative at 3 and 4 weeks. Contacted girl a couple times since, says I have nothing to worry about, she just got out of 5 yr relationship only ever had a few partners. Currently waiting for results from 9-10 week test, trying to ease stress and anxiety. Most worry stems from the swollen node that showed up the day after and has remained, as well as neck and back pain, once again very likely due to stress as I have been very depressed about this incident.
Thank you for your help.