Dear Doctor,
I would be most grateful if you could take a second of your time to read my short story and asnwer a short question. I would be very grateful.
I made a mistake of going to a strip club in Geneva. There a recieved oral sex (for 1 min) and there was a bit of outercourse (for about 1 min she was sitting on me without any clothes i also was naked and she rubbed her self over me, probably touching meanwhile my penis with her vagina).
Things that I noticed
- she barely agreed to give me oral pleasure
- when kissing her she had her mouthe closed
- did not see any blood when she was giving me oral pleasure
- did not see any ulcers or cracks on her lips
- first thing before we began doing something she said only with a condom
- when she was giving me oral pleasure she was spitting every half a miniut everything out.
What is also maybe important is that my penis could not get hard. So anyway nothing else could hapen. A just left after about 10 min.
Till now I did the following tests
- after 9 days for chlamydia and gonorihia - negative
- after 16 days rapid hiv blood test - negative
- after 27 days rapid hiv blood test - negative
After asking in the Geneva hospital they said that the hiv tests are the newest ones.
Meanwhile I had such symptoms
- small fever after 3 days that lasted for 5 days (3.74 C)
- througtht infection as diagniased by my doctor
- abdominal swelling for 2 days
- 1 day diaria
- now I am having a small cold symptoms
- after ejaculation my precome comes out of the urethra for about 5 min (heard it is normal and it might have happend before the exposure I mentioned and now because of anxiety I might have reliased it more)
After all of this I would love to have your opinion. Should I be woried? Am I in the clear? Should I do any more tests? Can I get back to work without stressing my self anymore?
Please answer because I can't concentrate as well as usual. I am even taking anxiety pills.