HIV Acquistion Risk

[sunni112]

Sir,

10  days back I went to a massage parlour. the lady after massaging me gave me a hand job.She was fully clothed and i inserted my hand in her top. She was lactating. I did press her breasts and got somemilk drops on my
hand(very few). while touching her nipples i may have got some milk on my thumb(although i did not feel anything wet).

After few seconds or may be half a minute With that same thumb I touched the tip of my penis for a second or two. she also wiped her breast milk with her hand/bra and used the same hand to give me a hand
job. I did touch her nipple for 2-3 seconds with my tounge but did not taste anything and did not actually suck it. I dont know her HIV status. She has a 1&1/2 yr old baby so probably the milk in her breast was already very less..
What is my risk & do i need testing.
Just to add there were no cut marks, brusises or sores on her hand,neither on my hand and my penis.

I have read that hiv does get transmitted through breast milk but that is from mother to baby and that too when the baby drinks alot. No where i cud find info on what if breast milk comes in contact(indirectly..i.e. through hands as in my case) with the penis or penis tip during a hand job

Apart from the anxiety that is killing me I have no other problems/symptoms. Pls tell me if I have any risk at all to warrant testing or is it zero risk situation.
regards

[Edward W Hook, MD]

You are asking me to repeat myself.  Repeating the question will not change my answer. This was a no risk exposure. Even if she was infected, the HIV virus does not survive well outside of the body and is not absorbed through intact skin.  No one has ever gotten HIV in the way you describe - you will not be the first.  Further anxiety driven questions will be deleted without comment.  EWH

[sunni112]

moreover I cant be too sure of her HIV status. She told me she had been working in the parlour for last 8-9 months and its her first job. Although strictly no intercourse happens there along with massage but girls somtimes do engage in uprotected oral sex apart from masaage n hand job if the client so wishes..Pl relpy to my last query..
regards

[sunni112]

Sorry for asking again..but touching of my and her hand which may have had some drops of breast milk with my penis or penis tip is of any consequence or not..I did nt take anything in mouth... its only touching of hand with penis tip that worries me.
Will it affect? How long does the HIV virus survive on skin(like hand in my case) in open air..b'cause for all i remember the  thumb might have been dry or semi dry before I touched it with the penis tip.Pl explain
regards

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Your risk for getting HIV from the exposure you describe, if not zero, is very, very close to zero.  For starters, the woman you had contact with was probably not infected with HIV.  Even if she was, getting her breast milk on your hand or even in your mouth from placing her breast into your mouth is almost certain not to lead to HIV transmission.  In my  opinion from a medical perspective the exposure you describe does not warrant testing.  EWH