how high is my risk

[alicia25]

I had somewhat of a threesome with my friend and her boyfriend, we were drunk and they were having protected sex, she has hiv, they stopped and after a couple of.minutes he put it in.me with a fair break between us,he was in me for less then five minutes because i told him get off, i felt sick due to the drinking i remember him still having the condom his story flip flops, how high is my risk given he was in both of us regardless of the short time, and he was also tested negative two days after

[Aaa140029]

my pleasure to help, believe it's a nightmare having these thoughts whether or whether not you've been infected..i've been there before and it nearly ruined my life, couldn't work, couldn't smile, couldn't live, and eventually i was tested negative. And believe it or not, that was all because of "fingering" and "Protected sex" encounter but iwas still afraid of the vaginal secretions getting on my genitals...STUPID!! :))

My advice is to move on and live your life, yet with wisdom

[alicia25]

Thank you so much for the response, this has been a rollercoaster especially with the fact that i was not aware of the fact that her boyfriend had no knowledge that she was infected, you have put my mind at ease for the time being thank you

[Aaa140029]

HIV is very fragile and it can only last outside the human body for  a minute max coz it needs its own specific habitate to stay active and that includes certain temperature and non-contaminted environment, so that all come to an end once it's outside the human body, which in your cas that's mainly what happened accoeding to what you've said " he put it in.me with a fair break between us"
hence, 90% you're all good, yet you can just have a Ag/Ab HIV test after 28 days of sex encounter which is available outside the US

if you're in the US then you have to wait for 3 months to have the Ab HIV test