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Male 2 Male sexual encounter...NEED HELP. Very Worried

Hi Everyone,
I'm new to this board, but while surfing the net, I saw this website where users are able to get quick feedback with logical and meaningful answers regarding various health issues.  

I don't know if I'm posting this message here correctly, but because my concern is also related to HIV, I am putting my queries here as well.  I hope you won't mind.

I just had a very horrible sexual encounter which involved male2male activities. This all includes (Me) receiving Heavy Analingus, receiving protected intercourse, and giving deep throat oral sex.

I would like to know what are the risks of HIV and Many other STDs out there for me?  I'm nervous wreck right now...it's only been few hours and I'm suffering from major guilt trip.

Does receiving heavy analingus create more issues for me?  How much should I be worried because of this?  Also, I'm also scared that I participated with deep throating during giving oral sex.  Does this mean more trouble?
Above all, the guy ejaculated in my rectum, but I'm not sure if the condom broke because of heavy penetration, it was impossible to feel it.

Any Detailed Answers to my question will be so much appreciated.  I'm extremely scared right now, and I don't know what's going to happen to me.  The more answers I get, the better I will understand in my situation.

Please help everyone. Thanks for reading.
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I understood you first reply completely. You've been assessed.
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Hello Teak,

I think you really like to play with words, huh.
"You never had penetrative sex."

I did mention that I had intense, heavy sex in my original post.  I'm just confused as to if it makes a difference if penis which was penetrating me before he put on condom, actually suggest the risk on this board.  I'm not sure to what extent the risk factor is at play in my situation but it is of great concern to me.  Yes, I know, mistake is done, but I can't do anything about it now other than try to get best understanding of all this.  This is why I came to this forum in the first place.
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You never had penetrative sex.
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have a question though -

does it matter that I had unprotected receptive penetration around my anus before I requested condom to be used, but not fully or deep inside?  I'm just confused because some say that it poses risks, then I read that it doesn't...
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Had you read what I posted, the first reply was to correct lanvin reply.
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I thought initially you had said that I had risk, now I have no risk?  I'm a bit confused

Kindly explain...I hope you wont mind.   Please help
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