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Massage with happy ending

Hi, I went to a spa 3 days ago and at the end of it the masseuse offered me extras. She went topless and I kissed and sucked on her nipples for around 10-15 minutes while she gave me a handjob. Some sites say that it is better to be tested after the 3 month mark to be safe so I have been worried. Im not sure if she is infected with HIV or not, but she very well could be.

Wanted to check on the following:
1. Can sucking on nipples be a cause for getting HIV or any other std? What if she was lactating or having cuts/wounds? I could not see any visible wounds
2. Does unprotected hand job offer any risk?
3. Should I consider getting tested after the 3 month mark?

Please do respond, will be very grateful. Thank you so much.
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You had no risk for HIV and a test would  be a waste of time.    
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. This sentence is all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established.
No one got HIV from touching or oral activities in 40 years of HIV history, so likely no one will in the next 40 years of your life either.
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