Bachelor Party Incident

[neveragain100]

In a bachelor party few weeks ago, I allowed a female to perform a hand job on me and I licked her nipple.  I was intoxicated and didn’t think too much.  Talk to friend couple days ago, he told me since I have unprotected hand job, and risk exists. My friends  reasons are I didn’t ask girl put hand sanitizer  to clean her hand when doing this since she could did same thing to other ones in the party , and I also didn’t check her hand for any open cut. I called CDC and seem person answer the call agrees my friend answers.  I am really confused and anxiety now. There are my questions:
1. Does CDC’s answer correct?
2. Should I and my partner go head to check for HIV since this unprotected hand job?
3. Does lick nipple add risk too since I can’t remember if I sucked  very hard?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Correct, No one ever.

No risk for kissing either.  

Glad to hear you will now move on.  EWH

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Stop and think about your question.   I told you that you have no reason to worry.  Obviously if there were a risk of unprotected sex with your regular, I would not have said this.  There will be no further answers.  You need to move on.  EWH  

[neveragain100]

Thanks, Dr Edward.  Last question if you don't mind.

Can I continue having sex with my current partner with/without protection?

[neveragain100]

Thanks Dr. Edward. I assume the word you used "On one EVER.. " is "NO one EVER..".

Also she was kissed my lip and neck also. Is this kiss no concern for HIV either?

If that is case, you assured me and I can move on now.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum. I have no idea who you spoke with at the CDC but they, as well as your friends, are incorrect.  What you describe is masturbation. Masturbation is safe sex.  On one has EVER gotten HIV through masturbation, not EVER and you are not going to be the first.  

As far as your specific questions are concerned:
1.  No, whoever you spoke with at CDC is incorrect.
2.  No, no need for testing.
3.  No, no risk from this activity either.  

You have nothing to worry about.  I am sorry that this sort of mis-information is out there to raise unwarranted concerns.  Take care.  EWH