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please please please i need your help i fear that i have exposed my self to hiv over the past 7everal months or so and im so scared and paranoid i cant cope, please help me some1 i dont know what to believe now i read so much information on the net i dont know whats true and what isnt
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186166 tn?1385259382
the kind of cut that it would take for there to even be a REMOTE chance of infection would be sooooooo great that you would NOT have your finger in some woman's vagina.  trivial cuts, scrapes, etc. simply do not pose a risk.

FEAR IS NOT FACT ! ! ! ! !

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even with an actively bleeding cut im so scared i cant do anything, im so scared of having and passing it on to my family that i wipe everything i use with disinfectsnt after i use it im really really scared
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186166 tn?1385259382
your symptoms are not indicative of infection.

there was NO RISK involved in the fingering.
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thanks again lizzie okay my final incident happened 4 weeks this sunday and im so scared of this one when i was in the nighclub the girl i was dancing with stuck my hand down her pants i rubbed her for about 10 secs at most and unsure if i inserted my fingers into her vagina if i did i didnt insert them past my finger tip i was a little drun k again, now what scares is that she was vey wet, as i relised what i was doing was absoloutley stupid i stopped and i walked away to the bathroom to wash my hands where i noticed an actively bleeding cut which was small by my finger nail it is where i had knocked my skin away from my nail earlier that day, im so scared i got hiv the girl was approx 20 years old same as me, ive had so many symptoms that are worrying some have come and gone and some have reoccured such as a sharp pain in neck and i have a single swollen gland by my ear which came on the 14th day and went approx 8/9 days lateralso i had bout of headaches which lasted for days at a time
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186166 tn?1385259382
NO RISK
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okay thank you my second worry isnt one im to concerned about but is a very small nagging doubt in my mind is roughly i kissed a girl deeply for approx 15 secs, the girl i found out often takes recreational drugs im not sure if she takes iv ones but i believe she has a possibility of hiv, as i said im not as worried about this as i have read virtually there is no risk but like i said its a nagging doubt
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186166 tn?1385259382
your test at 13 weeks was RELIABLE and CONCLUSIVE...proving that PROTECTED sex is just that...PROTECTED SEX.

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lol sorry, well firstly i tell you my first encounter i had protected sex and protected oral with csw in amsterdam in march of this year it will be 28 weeks on saturday after having a host of mild symptoms which now i believe to be caused by stress, i tested negative after 13 weeks and 3 days in local sex clinic after taking what i belive was 4th gen elisa test also tested negative for syphillis at this point,
i tested because i dont know the quality of condom and if it remained intact as i was drunk ive regreted this ever since, and im wondering does this incident require testing as i have read that it can take up to 6 months for hiv to develop but also read sometimes it can be dormant for years in the body
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186166 tn?1385259382
what would you like to know?    what was your exposures?   sorry but we're not mind readers.
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