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Indirect transmission of vaginal fluids to penis from outside of condom.
Hi,
I was dead drunk and made a stupid decision to go to an escort from Back Pages.com
1. Protected sex with condom for 1 min. after the intercourse did not remove the condom,closed my zippers and walked out and after 2 minutes removed the condom and check for any tears. It was intact.
Fear factor- residual vaginal fluids outside of condom get stuck to the thighs and inside of boxers and when i removed the condom my penis was exposed to them . ? since the sex was about 2 min max i did not see a lot of fluids.
2. Had licked top of her vagina for about 20 seconds.
Based on the above experience do you think i have put myself at risk for HIV .
Is there a reason to worry or am i just being paranoid because of the guilt.
Thanks a lot for your help in advance .
I was dead drunk and made a stupid decision to go to an escort from Back Pages.com
1. Protected sex with condom for 1 min. after the intercourse did not remove the condom,closed my zippers and walked out and after 2 minutes removed the condom and check for any tears. It was intact.
Fear factor- residual vaginal fluids outside of condom get stuck to the thighs and inside of boxers and when i removed the condom my penis was exposed to them . ? since the sex was about 2 min max i did not see a lot of fluids.
2. Had licked top of her vagina for about 20 seconds.
Based on the above experience do you think i have put myself at risk for HIV .
Is there a reason to worry or am i just being paranoid because of the guilt.
Thanks a lot for your help in advance .
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum. Bottom line: no risk for HIV.
Statistically, it is unlikely your partner had HIV -- for sure under 1% chance and more likely around 1 chance in 1,000. And even without a condom, vaginal sex carries a risk of roughly 1 transmission for every 2,000 exposures, if the woman is infected. And your exposure was condom-protected. HIV is pretty hard to transmit, and nobody gets infected by exposure to secretions on the outside of a condom or on the skin. Finally, nobody has ever been known to catch HIV by cunnilingus (oral to female genital contact).
If this is your only potential exposure to HIV, you do not need testing -- except maybe for reassurance, if my advice doesn't settle it for you. And all people who are sexually active outside mutually monogamous relationships should have routine HIV testing from time to time, like every 1-2 years. On that basis, maybe testing makes since, while it's on your mind. But not because of this particular exposure.
I hope this helps. Best wishes for happy holidays-- HHH, MD
Statistically, it is unlikely your partner had HIV -- for sure under 1% chance and more likely around 1 chance in 1,000. And even without a condom, vaginal sex carries a risk of roughly 1 transmission for every 2,000 exposures, if the woman is infected. And your exposure was condom-protected. HIV is pretty hard to transmit, and nobody gets infected by exposure to secretions on the outside of a condom or on the skin. Finally, nobody has ever been known to catch HIV by cunnilingus (oral to female genital contact).
If this is your only potential exposure to HIV, you do not need testing -- except maybe for reassurance, if my advice doesn't settle it for you. And all people who are sexually active outside mutually monogamous relationships should have routine HIV testing from time to time, like every 1-2 years. On that basis, maybe testing makes since, while it's on your mind. But not because of this particular exposure.
I hope this helps. Best wishes for happy holidays-- HHH, MD
This my only potential exposure , based on the response i will put it behind me and will never make any mistakes of this kind. Am i safe in doing so.
Thanks a lot
Thanks a lot
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