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please give me right advice, should i test?

last week, i invited a lady to do handjob on me. we did NOT have vaginal, anal, or oral sex.
she started to masturbate muy penis. after 2 minutes she suddenly spat in her hands and stroked my penis until i ejaculated. then she wiped her hands and my penis off with handkerchief. at first i didn't consider this event as a risk, but yesterday i heard from our TV that hiv rate from sexual activities is increasing up in our country. since then i started to worry about the handjob incident, especially that she used her saliva to lubricate my penis. i thought can this be among those sexual activities?
i did not notice her saliva or hands to see if there was blood or not.
if we assume she was a high risk girl, is this a way of catching hiv? should i get tested, or can i go back to my life without worrying?
i have a wife, i love her and i don't want to put her at risk, thanks.
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any other comments? thanks,
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ok,,,are your and the doctors' statements for handjobs according to scientific findings and the realities? can i completely rely on them? i want to forget about this event,,,can i? thanks,
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Go into the Expert Forum and use the search tool and see what they Dr's say for yourself.

Your risk from mastebation is the same as anything else that you do that will not give you HIV.
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so is my incident's risk the same as shaking other peoples' sweaty hands, or swimming in in a pool in where people may spit,,,?
i ask these because i want to completely put my mind at ease.
i know you have good knowledge about hiv, but do the hiv doctors say the same thing for mutual masturbation with saliva, according to your studies and knowledge?
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I don't know what they mean with "sexual activities" probably unprotected vaginal and anal sex.
Saliva is not infectious no matter what

Again you had no risk.
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so what do they mean when say "sexual activities"?
and,, what if that saliva contained blood?
and what about the handjob itself? isn't it risky when making saliva touch the penis opening?
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It is a no risk event. Saliva is not infectious.
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