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I'm 25year old virgin man but 9 months back 45 year old married man (it was my 2nd meeting with him) licked my non erected penis for around 10 seconds i was not wearing condom at that time so i controlled myself and didn't go ahead few mins back he tried to kiss me but i avoided that too and ran away from him ... now from past 2 months am getting cold and cough again and again and energy level is not that good as it used to be m also home bound from last 4years due to private studies.Am very scared now do i stand any risk for AIDS\HIV or STDs ?i have promised myself never to indulge in any sex related activity till marriage but m very tensed and depressed please reply ASAP thank you god bless you
Thanksss !! i didn't know about this at all and am now quite suprzied thank you for helping me
Thank you Sir for the valuable advice ! m new on this site ..just checked ur profile and others also ..very damn impressive. So Sir this equation Oral Sex=No Risk is a universal truth ? should i share this info with all my friends who often goes to other sites and end up getting confused. btw this site( you guys) helped me to overcome my tension m glad i joined it.Are you guys are also on FB ?
I agree with getitright77, read the health pages included in this page, it will give an exact idea about the risk factors! Now chill out, and move on dude. You have miles to go. and share the facts about hiv with ur friends toooo..
One does not have to be an expert to tell you that you never had an exposure to hiv with the situations you described.
I won't say we don't have some people here that are not educated in HIV and give incorrect advice. You need to check the people's profiles that are answering your quetion. Most of the people in the forum that have been doing assessment for years are very knowledgeable
We met in a public transport ..he was a complete stranger ..the bus was fully crowded ..he took the advantage of it and started touching my penis and surprisingly i started enjoying it but before anything cud happen we reached to our destination so nothing happened then co-incidentally we met again and he straight away asked me, wanna have fun at my place ..not sex but will have other things ? and me like an idiot said yes(I before that incident never had any gay encounter) he took me to his vacant place and immediately striped my clothes off and suddenly took my penis in his mouth ..he didn't take it fully (i was not wearing condom at that time) and my penis was not even partially erected ...i felt his tongue on my penis it was little pleasurable cuz for the first time some one did this to me but this process lasted not more than 10-15 seconds and he said your penis is dirty or something m not gonna suck it more ( i think he did not like the fact that m not getting erection ) and then he said its better i give you only hand-job and then you can go home i was like ok fine give me handjob ..i slept on the bed in a normal position he started giving it but i felt nothing ..i felt like robot is touching my penis and started thinking that's it better i run away but i cud not then he tried to smooch me i felt yuk i didn't let him to kiss me ..i think he got frustrate seeing allthis that's why he asked me to go bathroom wash ur self and go home ...i washed my penis and went back to my work when i was leaving his place he asked my fone no. he wanted to try it again with me but i didn't give and promised myself never to repeat this mistake.Now the thing is from last 2 months m getting cold and cough again and again and my feeling low on energy so i thought to read abt Oral sex i surfed few sites and wikiepedia abt oral sex thr they says oral sex is not completely safe ..so i got worried ..and m in depression since then m unable to concentrate on anything..all the time m just cursing and hating myself for committing this stupid crime ...i wrote to few sex expert abt this but none answered me yet ..yday i found this forum so put up this question immediately ..
Oral sex is really 100% safe ? if it is they why wikipedia and other sites are opposing it ? :( do we have doctors here too ?
ps-sorry for any grammatical mistakes
Oral sex is really 100% safe ? if it is they why wikipedia and other sites are opposing it ? :( do we have doctors here too ?
ps-sorry for any grammatical mistakes
Thank you so much Sir ji m also from India ..your words will help me to come out of my depression ..i can't even share this with my best friend God Bless you for replying back.Million thanks again !
licked your erected/non erected penis = unprotected oral sex = NO RISK.
KISSING of any kinda = NO RISK.
HIV RISK DEMANDS UNPROTECTED INSERTION/PENETRATION.
in short UNPROTECTED ANAL/VAGINAL SEX
u hadnt any of these. so u r under ZERO RISK.
forget the incident, also stop linking ur other body difficulties with HIV SYMPTOMS. u r perfectly well my friend.
KISSING of any kinda = NO RISK.
HIV RISK DEMANDS UNPROTECTED INSERTION/PENETRATION.
in short UNPROTECTED ANAL/VAGINAL SEX
u hadnt any of these. so u r under ZERO RISK.
forget the incident, also stop linking ur other body difficulties with HIV SYMPTOMS. u r perfectly well my friend.
hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child
clearly...you had NO risk for contracting hiv.
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child
clearly...you had NO risk for contracting hiv.
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