I am living in the UAE as an expatriate, I moved here 5months ago through a job transfer. After arriving here I did not conduct any sexual intercourse with anyone, to be precise the last time I had sex was on Dec 4th 2006. I was tested in mid-May 2007 for HIV, so as to gain employment status in the UAE. The test showed HIV negative.
I kinda promised myself never to do it again until i meet the right woman.
Anyway, on July 17th, I met this lady at the new coffee place in the neighbourhood. I invited her to the office in the evening and we had sex. I would give you a bit of detail here, we snogged for a while like 5-10 mins, where I am sure skin in my mouth broke. Secondly, after the top foreplay I went below and licked her vagina while fingering her for another 10mins, i tried not to swallow anything but i am not sure if i succeeded. Immediately after that i put my penis inside her, but it had been 7 months and in less than 30 secs i ejaculated inside her. I had condoms in my pockets but in the heat of the moment i just did not wear protection. I have never had unprotected sex before.
Another issue i would inform you is that she had been in the UAE for a while, like 7 months, though, she received her employment/residence status in March or April, she must have been tested and been negative. That is also something that made me do it unprotected. I know it is stupid. I have been worried sick since then. She wanted to do it, but i was so overwhelmed by what i did that i just called it off.
I am really worried, i would like to know the chances of contracting HIV in this scenario; as well as anything i can do now to prevent HIV infection , incase, i hope not, i did get infected. 'Kill it while it is still young'.
Also, any other signs I might wanna watch out for. I have this feverish pain around a week after the intercourse(since yesterday), sore throat and a slight burn in penis. Could it be bacterial infection from licking her genitals? Or something more? The fever and sore throat has gone down slowly but i am still worried. Am also kinda weird about this stuff that i might imagine my penis is burning but it is not, u know psychologically i feel like i have it or some other Venereal disease. TOday is the 10th day since I had sex.
Pls advise on the best way. Also note, in the UAE, if u r diagnosed with HIV, they deport you immediately. Doctors are supposed to report all cases imediately to the police/immigration. Therefore, I have basically no medical experts to turn to here, until i get my leave in November.
Thanking you, Yaz.