Pls help....

[sandeep33]

Hi Doctor...
I had slept with 1 woman(ist time ever in life met her in a train) whose status may be positive(not sure)
on 4th of april 2008.we involve in deep kissing and mutual masturburation.after this incidence 2 weeks later i have got fever with sore throat that went away with antibiotics in 5 days.
After this i always think of getting affected(stressi.e lost interest in  all activities of life).after 1 month I came to US for work and sudenly realize white coating specially on back on tongue and feeling exhausted and some sweat at night time(body heat increase) not able to sleep may be bcoz of stress,lost lot of weight also.After this i checked on net and all these related to HIV.Then i went to doctor and get the HIV 1 and 2 test done after 11 weeks(23 June 2008).it came negative.but still i hav the symptoms but my doctor said it may be anxiety.Pls advice me....I m almost lost hope..

[CautiousMan]

How many times you were told that you WERE NEVER AT RISK OF CONTRACTING HIV? and you still repeat the same question? Move on with your life and forget about this incident. Nothing to be worried about. You were not at risk.

[sandeep33]

Teak,
U people r really doing a great job here.....to help others in trouble is the best thing...
I also try to help every needful.hats off to u!!!!
lat question what can i do to stop worrying as I away from my home....not able to share my feelings with anyone....Can i tell to my family abt all this but then thought but they felt abt me?Pls advice..

[Teak]

Guilt may be your problem, but you can rest assured that HIV isn't. No, you don't need to go test.

[sandeep33]

Thanks teak...
ur reply gave me some relief....
Do i need to go for testing again or try to forgot the incident as this is ist time i hav done this in my life with unknown person.I m felling very guilty after that...
Pls advice.....

[Teak]

Is it all due to anxiety? It's not due to HIV. You didn't have a risk.

[sandeep33]

Thanks all for ur posts...
what do u mean by testing wasn't warranted?Pls explain..
Is this all due to anxiety....as these thoughts never go out of my mind even for single minute....always thought i go it as I licked her body and boobs also...So any chance thru that?Pls advice...