Extremelyyyyyyyy Sacred about HIV

[jackdans]

I was in Oxford about 9 weeks back & went to striptease club. I was wearing jeans, underwear, shirt & belt. I had about 2 lapdances from 2 strippers. The second was doing it really hard & continued it for 15 to 20 mins. My all clothes were on & she was naked. However at the end of the lapdance may be last 3 to 4 minutes I had a very different sensation to my penis head skin, as if something was rubbing against it or my foreskin was being pushed. I was too excited to look down what was happening. I then went home & my underwear had precum marks all over & specially on the top of the underwear elastic. I really got scared . I think due to stripper moves my penis might have come out of my underwear & then out of jeans & it might rubbed against the stripper vagina. I was sitting & she was dancing on top. I started to think about possible HIV infection. I went to striptease club & met same stripper asked about her HIV status, her English was not good, but she said "I am a good girl & you penis was not out as I cant remember it". I asked if I need to do HIV test she said "No". I was depressed, finally did Tridot antibody test at 38 days. It came back negative. Then no symptoms at all, but precisely at 9 weeks I got rash on my left arm only & no where else on the body. No fever, No swollen lymph nodes. The rash was for about 5 to 8 days. The bumps were red in colour. When they came the skin was itchy. They were raised & itchy only sometimes. At the bottom of the these red dots I had eight pimple like bumps in a straight line. I then did anti body test using tridot kit about 9 weeks & 5 days (3 days after skin rash). The test came back negative. I then went to dermatologist & he said it looks like insect bite, I then went to other dermatologist, he said its papular rash due to allergy. I told him everything he said there is no need to test & I need psychiatric help. Does my exposure count to high risk. What was my skin rash at 9 weeks. I don't want further test I am tired

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Even this sort of non-penetrative contact is not in any way associated with risk for HIV.  Still no reason at all to worry.  

And yes, your negative antibody test 3 days after the rash was noted is strong evidence that the rash was not due to HIV.

You need to stop worrying and move on.  No need for further testing.  EWH

[jackdans]

thanks for the response. my only question is what if my penis had really come out off my underwear and pant and touched strippers vagina or brushed against her vagina with no penetration for 3 to 4 minutes can this cause possibility of hiv infection. does my negative anti body test 3 days after the rash   convincing enough that there is no need to worry at all and i dont require any further testing

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Repetitive Question. See response to your earlier question. This question will be deleted later this afternoon.  EWH