Hi--As a woman reading your post, I'd say that abstaining from sex with your girlfriend until you get a negative test at six weeks would be the right thing to do! I know doctors advise based on statistics, but I'm betting if you gave your girlfriend a choice she'd vote for a postponement of pleasure--just to be sure!
Good luck.
You can test for the most common STDs (gonorrhea, chlamydia and NGU at any time more than 3 days following your last exposure). HIV testing should wait for 6 weeks. Regarding abstinence in the interval, my judgment is that given the scenario you describe your risk is only slightly higher than it was had the women you mentioned not been arrested, it is just that you have had a "wake up call". Whether you abstain totally, use a condom (as you should always do with a new or unknown partner) or not is your call.
EWH
just to clarify and not to be a pest
Refrain for 6 weeks?
Test at 6 weeks for HIV and all stds?
Correct
Welcome to the Forum. I fully understand your concern and agree with your plans for future testing. In the interim, while I think your concern is reasonable, I wouldn't be too worried between now and at 6-8 weeks when you can get tested and put this behind you.
Here are the reasons why I think you do not have too much to worry about:
1. We both agree that CSW clients may go to multiple CSWs therefore within a "network of CSWs and their clients infections can spread from one to another.
2. Most CSWs however do not have HIV.
3. For you to get HIV, a CSW that you contacted would have had to had a client who had contact with the infected women you mentioned AND gotten HIV AND transmitted it to the CSW who you were with who would have then transmitted it to you. Thus it would require a chain of 3 transmissions for you to get infected. In each instance, the risk of transmission at each step is about 1 transmission for every 1000 acts of unprotected intercourse. thus, using this scenario, your risk becomes very, very low.
Bottom line, the arrest issue you mention brings your attention to the risk that is present with ANY new partner and is a good reason to use condoms for any casual contact or, for that matter any new relationship in which the partners do not know each others' infection status. At the same time however, it is not a reason for you to be especially worried. Hope these comments and perspective are helpful to you. EWH