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Doctor pls help HIV question

Dear doctors. Thaks for yor good work and may god bless you  ,
The question is related to Hand Job  I know may be it’s a same question , because many peoples here ask this before, Still i wants a clear picture from a doctor becaue i worried i may put my wife also into risk because of my mistake

One week before I went to a China massage parlor and I never expect these situation finally end up with a ahnd job ,  I were totally feeling guilty and panic myself  about this incident , I am married with a kid ,

After this happen I feel diarrhea loose motion all the days ,
My question is should I  go for test , and which is the best time to test
I didn’t  have sex with my wife after this happen and I am concerned a lot ,

How long I can hide from my wife why  I am more nervous and panic all time . If I tell my wife this incident what will be  the reaction I don’t know

Doctor please advise me should I  forgot the HJ and go back to normal life. Or I should eat fire till the window period ends  and get away from my loving wife and children.
How long i should wait for the window period

During the hand job she fingered herself and touch my penis edge, I am worried  if any vaginal fluid in her hand , it may be the risk of HIV. Or HIV will transfer thru this way

Sorry for my poor english I am not english native

Thanks again to all

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start your own thread
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I have a problem
im scared to have hiv.I had unprotected sex for less than a minute and I did not sperm inside.I try to enter n my penis was very much week. I did not penetrated in , only by the penis head. I ddnt have problem but later whn I asked her to do hiv test on 51 days after unprotected sex
she tested hiv positive n no std in her.
I felt like im dead n I will not enjoy my entire life
I will enjoy pain only.
I went to test on 53 days of unprotected sex.I was nagetive. I started to stress thinking im gng to find tht I hv it at 12 weeks. On 8 weeks i stress every day n I started to not to enjoy life I was sleeping only. My friends took me to lesotho in africa n I ddnot enjoy because I started to feel hot bite pains.I never felf that in my life. It feels like niddles in my skin. It was not in my bones. I felf them on the skin.I felt them under my feet ,hands, eyelishes,  

I had run over urine in 8 weeks after urinating some urine left over it became uncontrolled. I try to forget n egnor it
But stress over takes me for 6 months
I tested at my house by home kit test
it came nagetive n I was not setisfied
I stress untill its 11 months n I went to public clinic I tested by proffesional nurse it came nagetive hiv again
I started smiling
I got married n my partner tested nagetive too

But my supprise
I still have pain on my skin
Hot pains
Specially if I have stress or depress
I dont know if the test went nagetive falsely.im confused

Can it be nagetive while is 11 months
I ddnt merry da lady who had hiv
its another who is nagetive
im scared because my wife was a virgin whn we get merried n I dont want her to b infected
Im 29
My wife 24
Is 3 years after unprotected sex
I need advice
what is happening to me
And tht urine running over it stop n it was hot when it comes out that time. It lick like thick water
Get beck to me doctor
I really need advice from you


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agreed and i am knew here sorry for that
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255761 tn?1204166672
Please dont start another thread . I remember answering this before
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sorry for repost this in the same forum ,, i thougt it will go the forum of Dr Hunter and Dr Edward, pls help me experts i am worried
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255761 tn?1204166672
This is not a risk . You just have some anxiety/stress from the incidence . Dont worry about it ... Enjoy life
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