Hello: About 9 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a man from work who I knew casually. Based on everything I know about him and what I have read on this site, I do realize that, as Dr. Handsfield might say, substantially better of being killed in a car within one year crash then having acquired HIV. Having said that though, I do want to test for my peace of mind. I'd like to get the following advice - some of it may be outside your area of expertise, but asking just the same:
1) My most important question is, of all of the different tests I am reading about here, which is the most accurate? My biggest concern is eliminating any risk of a "false positive". If this means I have to wait longer then 9 weeks, or do a full blood test rather then one of these "Rapid" tests I am reading about, that is well worth it to me.
2) Do these "Rapid" tests carry a higher risk of a false positive result? If I wait past a certain time post-exposure, does the risk of false positive for the rapids go away? I would prefer to do one of these oral-swab or finger ***** tests, as that will allow me to find out the results immediately as I understand it, but if these carry a higher risk of false positive then I will do a full blood test.
3) Are there any tests that are more accurate for a woman then for a man?
4) Finally, in your experience with state or county health departments, is there a way to ensure privacy (or annonymity) in getting one of these tests, so that my insurance does not ever find out about it?
Thanks, Maggy