Received oral sex cause HIV?

[Maxwell_007]

Hi, on May 27th 2018, I had received oral sex from a transgender in india. She had used condem. But I was not sure,
whether that condem is teared,
That transgender is hiv affected, and
She had enough bleeding on her mouth.

The very next day onwards I had more body pain especially on my bottom of legs and shoulders, and itching on my armpits. This might have been due to heavy (man) work on 26th and 27th of May and perfume changing respectively.

After the next 2 weeks exactly from 12th June onwards, I had muscle ache, complete tiredness, throat pain, sore on penis and joints pain little bit. So I am afraid of this.

(Here please note that myself and my wife had a lunch in a hotel on 11th June 2018. From that next day onwards she also had muscle aches.)  

So I have tested eclia on 15th June (exactly after 19days of exposure) and it is non reactive, it's value is 0.359.

Could you please advise me if there is any chance of hiv infected and any tests that need to be taken. And any treatment that can control hiv..

Thanks a lot if I receive a reply from you.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Hello, as our members have stated, oral sex is not a risk for HIV and any test you have taken or will take will be negative with a non risk event.  We wish you well and are closing this discussion.

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[Maxwell_007]

Today I have consulted with a doctor and he suggested to take pcr DNA and p24 antigen tests. I have given blood samples and results can be obtained by Monday. Thanks. Maxwell_007

[AnxiousNoMore]

We already have the results Negative. Move on from HIV and live a normal life.

[Lavwan]

But what if a “CSW” uses mouth water i.e Listerine. Wouldn’t that make it a risk?

[CurfewX]

NO.  Nothing you can think of would make receiving oral sex a risk.  NOTHING.  In the 40 year history of HIV, no one has been infected this way.

[Lavwan]

Thank you and sorry for hijacking this thread. One last question what is your medical background in being so certain in your answers

[CurfewX]

Our responses are based on information provided by leading medical organizations and top doctors in the field of HIV.  MedHelp does not allow members to post incorrect information.  If the information we were providing here was inaccurate, MedHelp would remove it.

[Lavwan]

Thank you and especially for your and the other contributing to this.

[AnxiousNoMore]

You had no risk and your test was a waste of time. She didn't need to use a condom, so that was even more reason you wasted your time testing. Any further testing will be HIV phobia.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make any of your encounter a risk for HIV.  No one in 40 years of HIV history got HIV from the situation you are concerned about so it is unlikely that it will happen in the next 40 of your lifetime either.
Your family's soreness is likely in your imagination or was always there before.