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I had Sex With A Stripper/Prostitute? Now Worry About Hiv Or
Hi to everyone in this helpful community. Well Last friday on 3/27 i went to a strip club. This older mature women dancer probably around her early 40's there approach me later on that night and wind up offering sex for an amount. I don't know why and i really regret it now but i accept, i guess i was excited. Anyways i said i don't got a condom and then she quickly pull out one and gave it to me. She told me to go to the bathroom and put it on and then we would walk to the vip area. So i went to the bathroom and i did clean the condom she gave me with a clean tissue from the side i was gonna put it on at. I apply the condom but i wasn't that erect. As we went into the vip she told there was cameras watching and just told me to sit on the couch and to pull out my penis through the zipper. She got on top of me on riding mode but i wasn't erect i was soft and the condom was on. I keep trying to get erect but i couldn't under those circumstances as or i was really nervous, i jerk a bit with the condom on and she kept making me more nervous by saying "i'll do it just relax, too many hands. The camera is watching". She jerk me a bit and still semi hard i think i manage to slid in her because she said ahh there. From there on i know the condom was still on because i din't feel her like when it's raw. I ain't sure if we where actually having sex or just back and forward frottage meaning rubbing my penis and her vagina with each other. I do recall getting my hand down there again after and feeling the condom pull it a bit more down as i was like soft not hard. She keep saying omg you are soo nervous, you're the first guy i ever seen this nervous. Anyways i think we once again did it again for some minute. My concern is after i guess she gave up and i did too i notice the condom wasn't there anymore and i freak. I told where is the condom! She said in my ***** baby i think it was stuck or barely slip but she got it and lick it and try to put it back on me. I said stop and the time was over anyways. I then ask her if she was clean a couple of times and she said yes don't worry. After i went to the strip club bathroom and wash and wipe myself with a tissue i had with me. I again ask her later if she was clean and if she promise. She said oh yes baby i'm clean and made a cross sign like blessing. I mean still though it's hard to trust people, considering she said she does outside sex services for money as well meaning escort or prostitution. She said she charge around 500 when not working at the strip club. That night i also had other strippers sit on my lap, one wich was kinda heavy and the one i had sex one was thick. I'm a skinny guy btw. Also got some private dances from some sexy hot girls but they where rough and some of them sit and hop on my bladder area and also on my scrotum and rough rubbing and hold both hands on my legs. I had an experience like 2 years ago a scared again i must say. Where i did it with a girl on the back seat of my car and i couldn't get that hard either as she write on top. That put the same type of kinda feeling what i'm feeling now. Burning in the tip of my penis and warmth sensation on my scrotum. Anyways i was tested up to 6 months that time for all std and hiv and i am negative. Never found out what the problem was and like four months ago i got an ultrasound of my scrotum and lower back x rays on the lower back. I forget what they mention for my lower back but they said to take it easy and on the scrotum they said i had hydrocele. Now back to story on last friday with the stripper sex. A few hours after i got home and went to bed i started to feel like my legs really tired and stomach like around bladder area making sounds and i had gasses. Next day i felt tired legs and then later i start getting that warmth hot sensation on my testicles, inner tighs legs and buttocks. The lower abdomen bladder sounds and gasses keep going. Sorry for the long story. 1 - Is it possible to get Hiv or Std symptoms just a few hours or a day after? 2 - My symptoms Are Warmth hot sensation on my scrotum, inner tighs, front legs back legs and buttocks and lower back. My lower back feels sore and warmth and bladder stomach area grumbling sounds and gasses. Also i have excessive urination that seems to happen more when i'm laying down trying to sleep. 3 - Do you think it's possible to get infected with anything even if i wasn't erect i was soft (im not that big soft btw probably almost 3 inches) and most likely i was in her for just one minute or two and the rest maybe was rubbing against each other? 4 - I'm 32 years. Do you think it can be my prostate instead? I did had that experience 2 years ago and i think for some reason when a girl rides me sitting on my might put pressure on my prostate, not to mention the strippers in that strip club love sitting on the bladder area and press on it hard. Could this probably trigger a Uti and my penis being soft not being able to erect and kinda having sex and rubbing inflamed my prostate? I would really appreciate your opinion on this. Oh and i might add i'm on antibiotics right now for five days now. The hot sensation on the areas seems to come on only when sitting down and not really when i'm standing up. 5 - So with all that said As i try to keep calm and think to myself since it was protected that is fine. But i'm really scared that probably condom fell off before she got off from me. That's my bigger concern. So do my symptoms sound like std hiv related or more of Uti or inflamed prostate. Anyways thank you very much your comments would be much appreciated thank you
Oh also i'm thinking and hoping and praying it's related to my lower back problem from doing crunches and sit ups a few months ago. Those girls That's the reason they did x rays and an ultra sound on the scrotum where they found a hydrocele. Those girls on the strip club are rough and hop on you and on the bladder area. Probably put pressure on my lower back where it's sore and burns or my prostate got inflame Uti or whatever
= But please let me know what you guys think
= But please let me know what you guys think
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That is a long story but as far as I can tell, there is only one pertinent detail. You didn't have penetrating unprotected vaginal sex so you had no risk for HIV and a test would be a waste of time.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3, and even though you htink there was no air contact, there was..
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV.
HIV is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex
3. sharing needles that you inject with. Knowing these 3 are all you need to know to protect yourself against HIV. Your situation is a long way from any of these 3, and even though you htink there was no air contact, there was..
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so there is no detail that you can add that will make your encounter a risk for HIV.
Thank you sir. I'm just worry because what if there was contact without the condom. And if i was soft not erect would my urethra be more shut and avoid liquid from her vagina to get in? I'm just curious because i started to get symptoms like hot sensations groin, tip of the penis, buttocks and legs, growling stomach around bladder area like i need to have a bowel movement but i don't really. Also lower back pain discomfort as well as and warmth, also frequent urination. This symptoms started hours ago like the next day after the encounter. Is it possible for any kind of hiv or std symptoms to show up rapidly?? I'm comforting myself that is due to my lower back problem bit injury a few months ago. That the strippers being rough and there weight on me on the bladder trigger a UTI or Injure a nerve from my lower back or whatever. Anyways looking forward to your reply really appreciate it
Reread about the 3 and realize that it is time to stop trying to work up an HIV theory from a bowel problem.
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