Good luck mate , as I read you had protected SEX so your chances to get Negative result is high
Yes, three months is conclusive
me and my gf is going to test tomorrow its gonna be 102 days since i had sex with the other girl will that be a conclusive test if we both test negative
The presence of menstrual blood doesn't increase your HIV risk, which is low.
You can test now for a conclusive result.
you and your partner should both go get tested. that's not saying you guys have HIV. I had swollen lymph nodes and still do, somewhat although they have gone down since, due to mono. It's possible you got mono, or something else.
I will pray for you though as that's the best I can do. Go get tested though.