The ONLY way to know your status is to test, which you are doing so good for you! Chances are your one-time exposure, even if she did have HIV, did not lead to infection. Although it can happen, one-time exposures usually don't cause infection. Try to relax and stay calm until you get your results. Weighing the "statistics" does you know good in this situation and you will only drive yourself crazy. Just hang in there!
to clairfy, by female/male sex i mean hetero.
Sorry Teak, I thank you for reading my post, let me explain what has occurred.
As stated in my previous post, my partner was tested several weeks ago for HIV. Last week, she again met with her mid-wife and asked about the HIV results - it turns out the blood test had not been signed-off and they had not tested it. This is the second test they've screwed up (the other was not HIV test), my then partner refused a second test, the hospital said they'd take it during her next blood count test. Scheduled in around 10 days time.
I was not completley honest with "waiting on result" - i am booked in for test this afternoon.
In the interim, my mind has been going over all of my sexual history in attempt to evaluate my risk. I have had a lot of unprotected female/male sex - though, this has been with a low risk population.
I do however have vague memories of a very drunk (anal giving) encounter around 9-10 years ago, possibly unprotected - hence my request for any additional info in regards to these two statistics.
I have been very careless in not getting myself tested earlier! what has triggered my anxiety was a message left on my partners phone from pathology i.e. there was something wrong with a test - turns out there was nothing wrong in the sense they'd found something, rather they had written the incorrect date of birth on it. So it was not useable - nor was this, the HIV test.
Any info on the requested stats, greatly appreciated.