Naked heavy frottage

[Mag2803]

Hi. I met with indonsian sexworker. We involved in mutual masterbuation and fingered her quiet some time, i know for the fact that hiv zero risk even with torn cuticles. She sat on top of me and started heavy grinding, i was wearing a condom, my penis was pointing toward my stomach and she started grinding back and forth. I couldn’t see my penis. We did that for a minute and half at most when she finished i realized the condom fell, not covering my penis. I asked her after we finished did we have sex or did it go in by mistake, she said no the penis never entered her vagina, i asked her multiple times after i left she said it didn’t go in we didn’t have sex and the agent of her told me they do test every week and use condoms only to protect the clients and herself and she is 100% healthy and not to be scared. The agent and sex worker told me you are worry too much and you didn’t have sex but im afraid while she was grinding me hard the condom fell without knowing it She told me she was grinding on my pubic area. She got so aroused she want me to have sex with or without a condom. So it go scared. I had one sexual encounter protected vaginal sex in my life and it was brief, 2 minutes. This is the first time i do this heavy frottage grinding and i know its safe but after i saw the condom fell, my anxious mind started to act up telling me what if during heavy frottage the penis went in after condom fell. She tells me we didn’t. The agent assured me she is healthy and she get tested every week and her last test was 2 days ago (sunday) and asked her if we did have sex but she said no. I dont know if i should take their word or not but im 99.9% sure we didn’t. I just need reassurance from the respectful experts like you guys on this wonderful forum. Thanks.

[Mag2803]

She just scared me when she said you can have sex with or without a condom but i didnt do. This is the first time i do frottage so i dont know while she was grinding up and down the penis slid in and she continued grinding without me knowing.

[CurfewX]

The only risks for HIV in adults are:
1) Having unprotected anal or vaginal sex, or
2) sharing intravenous needles with IV drug users.

It isn't possible that you had sex without knowing, and the sex worker also confirmed that you did NOT penetrate her.

If you do not engage in any of the activities I mentioned above with someone HIV+ or whose HIV status is unknown to you, you will NEVER have to worry about getting HIV. There is no information you could add about this event that would make it a risk for HIV.

You had ZERO risk for HIV and you do not need to test.

[Mag2803]

Thanks for the reply. Im afraid it went in while i thought its just genital apposition and when i discovered the condom fell during grinding i got scared and then what ifs question starts playing in my head.

[CurfewX]

We can't assist you with your irrational thoughts.

[Mag2803]

As the agent said she test every week, twice, Sunday and Thursday. Which i dont know why that much but agent said for the safety of the clients. I have a hard time believing that.

[CurfewX]

Last comment from us: It doesn't matter. You had ZERO RISK for HIV.

Move on from this event.

[Mag2803]

There is absolutely no way without the slightest doubt that during grinding the penis went in without me knowing. Actually while playing back what i did l, she told me to place my penis sleeping on the pubic area and she started to grind, so i think no way it went in like that without feeling the pressure of penetration.

[Mag2803]

I’m really sorry and definitely will move on but if you could please ease my doubt in the last comment i posted. Thank you

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Our members are not able to provide continual reassurances. Your questions have been fully and thoughtfully answered.

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