Scared To Death!!!

[JamesJJJOnes]

Hello All, Thanks for hosting and helping with this site. I have a few Major Concerns. Im 31m From Long Island NY. Im Married with a Child. I dont get Sex from My wife so iv been doing things that make me feel guilty but have now began counceling alone and with my wife to fix our sex life and my other problems. About 3.5 months ago i began stoping at the local park and ride and Recieved and only recieved oral sex from eather married bi men or single gay men this happned about 5 times unprotected up to about the 3 month point from my last hiv test. I also had sex unprotected. At 3 months i had an hiv test and it was negetive. Is this conclusive. Also 16 days prior to the test I recieved another ** or oral sex unprotected whatever is the proper term. This week i began having a soar throat and today i was clamy and had no appitite and a bit of nausia. My wife dosnt know any of this and i made up a story about 5 years ago that she believes is why im being tested. If she finds out about this she will divorce me. This has been made very clear. Im so scared i contracted hiv that its affecting my sleep. I dont care about the mental aspect of my infidelity im seeing someone for that. What im scared of is at 3 mos before my last test which was last week and i just recieved my negetive results. and the two weeks prior to the tests oral sex. What are my chances. Please help me. Iv lost 10 lbs and im Scared to death. I also believe my ammune system to be low due to lack of sleep and stress. I had shingles a few weeks ago as well.

[Teak]

No chance of contracting HIV from receiving oral sex. You do know that you are at risk for contracting other STDs?

[JamesJJJOnes]

So i have no chance of hiv. Is that correct. Even if my last oral was only  two weeks before my test.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk of contracting HIV from receiving oral sex and your 3 month test proved that. As for the shingles, anyone that has had chickenpox can get shingles. Shingles are not HIV specific.